jkony Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 This is about mz friends gf, thez have been together for a month now. She is reallz great gitl and I think she would never cheat on him. But 2 times, she tried to make him jealous. First, she was doing a party the day after he was sleeping over at her place and she joked that day he was sleeping there and the next night a group of guys. When he jokingly said he will look after her she imho found out what she said, began to tell she didnt mean it etc. But, today he told me he was going out her place and she told him sadly she has noone to cuddle with now and maybe she could find anyone to cuddle in the bar. Then, immediately she told him it was a joke and she would never do that. The main problem is, my friend doesnt even seem bothered by this at all, telling he trusts her she wouldnt cheat on him. But I do a little bit. This is for sure a sign of insecurity from her, because I know her too and she has a need from him to prove her he loves her and I believe she wouldnt cheat on him too, but what are your opinions? Should he be worried? Link to comment
DanZee Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 You should stay out of other people's business! Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 She is very insecure and will cause your friend much drama. Link to comment
limichelle Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 He’s your friend you have every right to be concerned. This is something he will have to learn on his own. You never get involved in a friends love life no matter how messed up it is. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 Didn't you post this before but it was your girlfriend not a "friend's"? Link to comment
limichelle Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 Didn't you post this before but it was your girlfriend not a "friend's"? I knew it sounded familiar! Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 You need to mind your business. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 Didn't you post this before but it was your girlfriend not a "friend's"? I was about to ask the same Link to comment
JCSK Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 If it really is your friend's gf, stay out of it, especially if he says it doesn't bother him. Just be there for him if it all goes wrong. It could just be silly banter from her, especially if she is young and inexperienced in relationships. If he decides he doesn't like it later on down the line, it's up to him to tell her. End of. If it is your gf...tell her it is making you feel quite uneasy and you would prefer her not to make jokes like that. If she refuses to stop she is showing you where her benchmark of respect is for you and it is time to walk away. Link to comment
yatsue Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 Once I read the OP, I thought I heard this before. Yes, you should be worried. Your gf has major insecurities. She is clingy and makes stuff up, due to it, in order to receive positive affirmation from you. Honestly, I would stop feeding her insecurities. I doubt you'll be back in order to answer, but don't you want a gf who is independent, secure, and treats you well? She either needs some serious, professional intervention and know your boundaries, or you need a new gf. You shouldn't be dealing with this so early in the game. Two months, is it? Yikes. Link to comment
tonschy Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 if it doesn't bother him than you should respect it! Link to comment
jkony Posted August 7, 2018 Author Share Posted August 7, 2018 Once I read the OP, I thought I heard this before. Yes, you should be worried. Your gf has major insecurities. She is clingy and makes stuff up, due to it, in order to receive positive affirmation from you. Honestly, I would stop feeding her insecurities. I doubt you'll be back in order to answer, but don't you want a gf who is independent, secure, and treats you well? She either needs some serious, professional intervention and know your boundaries, or you need a new gf. You shouldn't be dealing with this so early in the game. Two months, is it? Yikes. and how do i stop feeding her insecurities Link to comment
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