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Thread: I have her a choice

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    I don't see anything out of line on her end. She's not doing anything to create an ongoing relationship. She seems to be letting him down gently. Your expectation that she have no relationships with exes is one thing, but you are being unrealistic to say no communication ever. He messaged her, she responded but in no way was disrespectful of your relationship. You do not get to control another person. If you feel this is a violation of your boundaries, end the relationship, but do so knowing that based on the information presented it's unlikely you will find someone who will completely cut off communication with other people who used to be a part of their life just because you feel threatened by it. There's a big difference between an occasional "how are you doing?" and an ongoing relationship. Be realistic in your expectations.

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    Originally Posted by crownroyal1980
    we both need to agree to no friends of the opposite sex, or friends with exs or keep in contact with them
    That sounds like major trust issues.

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    Originally Posted by WalterSobcha
    That sounds like major trust issues.
    This is a 2 year old thread.

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    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    This is a 2 year old thread.
    Aye, apologies for the necroposting. I don't remember how I ended up reading this old thread, but I hadn't noticed the posting dates.

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