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Thread: Help?? Am i possibly dating a married man??

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    Help?? Am i possibly dating a married man??

    Yesterday I found out something thats a bit concerning and I want to discuss with him but i dunno how..


    He had asked me.if I had twitter and I said I dont, because I dont have any indeed.

    Today I found his twitter account, scrolled down there was a photo of his house.
    I .zoomed in to see background
    On the shelves it looked like not very clear, something like wedding photos of him(??) with a bride next to him
    On a piece of paper i saw something like an anniversary announcement, not clear again but two names written clear his name and a female name
    The thing is how do i ask him about this

    That photo was dated March one month before we met

    We are dating one month and a half and he has mentioned of me going to his house without clear invite...But he insists coming over to mine which he will do on Thu supposedly.

    Help!

  2. 06-06-2018, 07:33 AM

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    im in Uk so these records are not that available.

    Im very worried and concerned now.

    How do i ask him??

  4. 06-06-2018, 07:43 AM

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    no he told me he is on twitter and he asked me if i had.

    I dont have so i didnt ask.

    He doesnt have FB as I dont do.

    I have done a mini background check myself but couldnt find anything suspicious

    I need to hire someone to do a full background check

    I technically snooped to his twitter. The images in the background were not clear, but the names were clear.

    He also had told me before we met when we were talking about families and stuff that his mother comes over from Cyprus every few months to stay with him.

    The thing is how do i go about it??

  6. 06-06-2018, 07:54 AM

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    he is 32 . he told me he is single and that he had relationship two years ago.

    so do you think i should tell him straight of what i saw??

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    Stop playing childish games and ask him. You are early at your relationship and I understand being afraid to ask, but how else are you going to build trust? Tell him that after asking you about Twitter you made a profile to see what it is about, and you saw what you saw on his profile. Dont come from an accusing place, just ask.

    Or simply tell him you want to come to his place.

    It does sound like he might be married, but it can be few other things too... Maybe he was married briefly but got divorced? Maybe you didnt see it right and its a picture of him with a friend or a cousin from her wedding? Until you have the facts dont assume anything. And when you ask you will see by his reaction if he is lying. Ask him about it face to face.

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    The thing is... On a piece of paper i saw something like an anniversary announcement, not clear again but two names written clear his name and a female name

    His name was pretty clear on it.

  11. 06-06-2018, 08:05 AM

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    itís not a bad thing that you looked at his Twitter accounts. Itís not like you were snooping through his phone or anything. Just say ďI was looking at your Twitter account I saw the picture of you and some announcement, just let me know if youíre married or not because Iím not really into dating married guys.Ē Unless you are, then in that case, a conversation is not needed. Iím kidding .

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    ye i suppose but he ddidnt say what his account was . he asked me if i had twitter to follow me and i said i didnt have and the convo ended there.

    I found the account by myself and zoomed in the photo to see these things

  14. 06-06-2018, 08:13 AM

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    yes i can but i zoomed in to see these things

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    Did you do a search on the woman's name as well?

    Meanwhile I wouldn't meet at your house. If you want to keep seeing him, keep it public.

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