First date

Is this a good sign ? Met a guy from a dating app . I actually had a date 4 years ago with him but it turns out I thought he wasnt interested and he thought I wasn’t. Anyway we had a coffee and a chat other week just for an hour or so and we went out properly last night for a few drinks . Lots of kissing and laughing . Shared a taxi home and I suggested going to his and he said no he didn’t just want sex . So I was dropped off first and he went on his way. He messaged that sex hadn’t even come into his head and if he wasn’t bothered he would have jumped and ran and the fact we’d been kissing should show me he’s attracted to me. I think I’m just used to someone trying it on . So is this all good ?

It's difficult to say at this stage. It could mean one of two things, he isn't attracted to you like that and will eventually put you in the friend zone or he is trying to hold off to show you he is serious and wants more than sex.

It depends on how he acts the next while as to which one it is.

It sounds like he wants to be serious. It’s nice that he didn’t try to tKd you for sex.