What’s this about ?

I’ve met someone on a dating site. We had a date 4 years ago but didn’t get a 2nd I thought he wasn’t interested. Anyway skip to now I messaged him few days ago on dating site asked how he was and we were chatting . I said we never had a second date . He reckons it was me that blew him off because he remembers dropping me off in his car and I gave him a friendly punch on the arm and said thanks but I thought it was because he wasn’t interested . Anyways went round for coffee and a chat other night and he drove me home but this time we kissed. Today he’s messaged me but has just said hes tired and apologises if he seems vacant and to bare with him a few days he will be back at normal and more his self . I said it’s ok I’ll understand if you don’t message much and he said good just wanted to explain. Do you think he’s not interested should I be thinking that ?

Ugh. Sounds like he's losing interest. Sorry. Make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend or an ex hanging around somewhere. It sounds like one of those kinds of excuses.

Sorry, doesn't seem like he was interested 4 years ago and he still isn't all that into you now.

He reckons it was me that blew him off because he remembers dropping me off in his car and I gave him a friendly punch on the arm and said thanks

yeah, idk if I went on a date with someone and it ended like that. I'm not sure I would really be interested either.

Listen to your gut feeling.