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Thread: How will you react if husband's cheating partner contacts?

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    How will you react if husband's cheating partner contacts?

    So, I had an affair with a married guy :(
    His wife found out and now its really bad for both of them. She is deciding to leave him. Which is horrible.
    I want to talk to her and tell her that she should not take such drastic steps and give him second chance. We both had no intentions of being together long term. It was like a fling and a big mistake. I feel horrible to have caused this to their family.
    What would you do if you were this wife and get contacted from your husband's cheating partner.

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    What would I tell her could not be written here and good for her for leaving. I hope she takes him for all heís worth.

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    Are you saying you'll not like being contacted?

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    Originally Posted by DonnaDaisy
    Are you saying you'll not like being contacted?
    Nope. And I would rip her over the coals.

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    You're going to have to live with the fact now that you've destroyed a marriage and potentially destroyed another person due to your actions.
    No doubt his wife is taking it very hard and is in a very bad place.

    DO NOT contact her. You will only further cause damage. The very last person in the world she wants to hear from, is you.

    You made terrible decisions, selfish ones and now not only do you have to live with it, but this couple does too, as does their family and friends and anyone that cares about them.

    You've created a lot of upset.

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    The regret and guilt is killing me. There has to be something I can do to make it any better :(

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    Originally Posted by DonnaDaisy
    The regret and guilt is killing me. There has to be something I can do to make it any better :(
    There isnít. Actions have consequences, sometimes you have to live with it. Obviously she has some self-esteem and wonít stay with a cheater. That is a good thing.

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    How is it killing you? You took your clothes off and got into bed with someone else's husband. You couldn't have felt that bad if you went that far.

    The damage is done.

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    Believe me she was hurt worse than you are.

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    Originally Posted by DonnaDaisy
    The regret and guilt is killing me. There has to be something I can do to make it any better :(
    Unfortunately you can't change the past but you can take steps to prevent further damage. Leave her alone and avoid getting involved with married men in future.

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