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Thread: My Wife and Her New Boss

  1. #551
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    Originally Posted by Rabican
    Thats some giant red flag stuff there...
    I presume you didn't read the entire thread.

    They are divorced now.

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    Originally Posted by KnightMan
    I appreciate the vote of confidence, I just think I've been pretty lucky so far.
    I don't really feel like I've handled things very well at all and I've made plenty of mistakes

    My wife managed to deceive me for 6 months
    I allowed my wife to flirt with her boss right in front of me
    I let my wife purchase an expensive watch for a man who doesn't need one
    I let her convince me that I was insecure and jealous
    I believed her lies
    I have to get tested for a disease and need therapy
    I almost let her convince me her affair was my fault
    I felt so helpless I had to turn to an anonymous internet forum for support
    I didn't even have the guts to tell her to come home until someone from this forum told me to grow a pair
    I never believed she would cheat on me but in my gut I knew she was
    I said nothing to her about the passcode on her phone
    I felt emasculated, cuckolded and worthless after reading those messages
    I have had trouble eating and sleeping and I still get those images of them in my head
    I can hardly stay focused
    I feel betrayed, lost, confused, hurt, humiliated, angry and sad
    I still love her after everything she's done
    I hate her after everything she's done
    I want to walk away from her and I can't let go of her
    I missed all the signals she says she tried to send me
    I should have seen the writing on the wall - all the red flags were there
    I had no idea what to do until the people on this forum advised me
    I pace the floor not knowing what the future holds
    Everything we have been working towards for the past 7 years is gone

    And a guy with money had my wife of 7 years in his bed within a week

    I don't feel like I have a good head - I feel like a laughing stock and a complete fool

    The good news is you're right, I have some great friends and amazing support from this board

    but remarkable? no, going to the right place at the right time and getting good advice from the right people...yes :)
    Wow crazy read... I havent been on this forum in ages.. came to post something for my cousin and saw this thread. For anyone in this situation... the way I look at these things is this all smells like BS. And once you recognize what BS smells like you know not to go back to it again. Learn from it, let it make you stronger, and next time you get a whiff of something that doesnt smell right you can put your foot down immediately and be like nah I aint doing this. You will be better for it in the end.

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    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    I presume you didn't read the entire thread.

    They are divorced now.
    Yeah I posted a reply and then looked up and said whoa 55 pages lol. Crazy story..

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