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Thread: My Wife and Her New Boss

  1. #31
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    Originally Posted by ControlDenied
    Put your foot down!!! It will work.

    Tell her is she wants to have a husband, she better come home now. If she doesn’t, then you have your answer.
    well, well, well, I'll be, it worked, haha
    Thought I'd try your idea, I figure what have I got to lose
    Called her back and said I was pissed about all her late nights at work
    and that she had better get her a** home if she wants to stay married
    it got real quiet on the other end, she told me she gets it and she's leaving now

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    Originally Posted by ControlDenied
    What kind of company? Private? Is there a board of directors?

    It's a private company, the POS inherited it after his dad passed away
    pretty sure there is a board of directors

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    Originally Posted by KnightMan
    well, well, well, I'll be, it worked, haha
    Thought I'd try your idea, I figure what have I got to lose
    Called her back and said I was pissed about all her late nights at work
    and that she had better get her a** home if she wants to stay married
    it got real quiet on the other end, she told me she gets it and she's leaving now
    woohoo so proud of you! Let us know how it goes.

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    Originally Posted by KnightMan
    Whoa, this all new to me, never thought of using his services on my own wife,
    he's a good family friend, do you think it's wise to use him? wouldn't she recognize him?
    I'm sure he wouldn't mind doing this for me, but this is all so crazy, my head is starting to spin just thinking about what I might find.
    I feel like I'm in the twilight zone
    She won't know it's him who pulls her texts and emails and such.
    Plus PI's are so skilled no one even has any idea they are being watched or followed.
    Let him refer you to someone in the field if you feel uncomfortable with him doing it.

    You need a definite answer, and proof. You cannot live in this misery like my ex did for years, only
    to grow more resentful every day. He has massive trust issues now . Better to find this out and confront
    her, and get on with life, whatever you may choose.

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    Told you!!! Now you stay put and in control of yourself. You tell her you will not subject yourself to anymore of this . She can do all she wants, but you will not be in a marriage where your wife disrespect you in any way.

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    Originally Posted by KnightMan
    well, well, well, I'll be, it worked, haha
    Thought I'd try your idea, I figure what have I got to lose
    Called her back and said I was pissed about all her late nights at work
    and that she had better get her a** home if she wants to stay married
    it got real quiet on the other end, she told me she gets it and she's leaving now
    Good for you!!!!!

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    Originally Posted by shellyf62
    My ex had an affair with his much younger co worker. He was doing all of the above & more.
    I found out because I found emails he was sending to my friend about how much they loved each other.
    The "work conferences" turned out to be long weekends for the 2 of them.
    He was leaving home early & coming home very late because he was picking her up & dropping her home.
    I threw him out & divorced him exactly 12 months to the day.

    Im sorry you are going through this. Please dont let her turn things around & make you feel paranoid & controlling.
    Her behaviour at the restaurant was extremely disrespectful to you, and I cant believe she did that.

    I would defintely hire the PI to follow her. She is absolutely up to no good with this man.

    Thanks, she still denies she did anything inappropriate at the restaurant
    She knows I'm not happy about the work conference coming up
    I won't let her turn this around on me, she's been acting very inappropriately with her boss
    and she needs to come clean. I just haven't really prepared myself for what I might find.

    My stomach is in knots, calling my buddy in a few

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    No man knows how she flirts the way you know it. Deep down you know, is her tone of voice, her demeanor, etc. She was this way with you when you went out first.

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    Originally Posted by KnightMan
    Thanks, she still denies she did anything inappropriate at the restaurant
    She knows I'm not happy about the work conference coming up
    I won't let her turn this around on me, she's been acting very inappropriately with her boss
    and she needs to come clean. I just haven't really prepared myself for what I might find.

    My stomach is in knots, calling my buddy in a few
    Then DO NOT make it about the restaurant. Find other things
    1) Constantly working late
    2) Buying the boss an expensive and personal gift that she would never have bought for you
    3) Deleting texts
    4) The boss chasing her around the pool like a boyfriend.
    5) flirting with her boss.
    6) and disrespecting you by even doing it in front of you
    Oh, and then you can mention the restaurant.

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    You wife is definitely having an affair.

    All signs point to it and the spoon feeding at the restaurant is so inappropriate. I have guy friends where we share food, we might talk late into the night platonically but ID never consider spoon feeding them! That's so suggestive of something more lol. And who buys an expensive watch for anybody but their s/0 and father?

    I'd be getting the evidence and getting a divorce. She won't get better and will do it again if you let it slide.

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