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Thread: Back from the holidays: waiting for him to contact me

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    Back from the holidays: waiting for him to contact me

    I am back form my holidays. I went away three weeks.

    We had two great dates before I went away. During the holidays we texted a few times, the last on Saturday when one of his questions was "How will you spend your last days of holiday?".

    So he definitely remembers that I am back today.

    Do you think it is ok if I don't send anything more and wait for him to contact me?

    Thanks

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    Tell him you're back and tell him how your trip was. Don't play games. Guys get caught up in doing stuff and where you've only had two dates with the guy, you're not on his speed dial yet.

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    That’s good advice DanZee. I’m going through a similar situation Mikaila. I forget that “guys do get caught up doing stuff.” Thanks DanZee!

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    If he knows you are back today, don't contact him. That just seems too eager to me.

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    He's probably waiting to hear from you when you returned.
    You could wait to see if he contacts you but unless you've done more than your share of contact, I see no reason why you couldn't reach out and let him know you are home

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    Contact him in a couple of days.

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    Contact him and see how he responds. The worst thing that could happen is he isn't interested and you can move on.

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    Thanks to all of you!

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    I don't understand why all this game playing and making everything so complicated. You've been away for three weeks. You are now home. Why can't you simply send a message and say: "Hi!! I'm home!! Can't wait to see you! :) " ? Seriously, I don't get it. So much beating about the bush over nothing. You're home. Say hello.

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    I think it'd be weird if he were counting the days until you got home to message you to hang out after all but two dates. You were gone. Now you're back. Let him know.

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