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In the past I have caught him making lewd comments on other girls posts. Women who follow him on Instagram and women who don't. His predatorial behavior concerns me. I have also caught him emotionally cheating on me on messenger with other women. Tells her he prefers her over me. But he stayed with me instead of her. I don't know why.

He tells me he won't let me see the messages in fear that I will "misunderstand" them.

My guess is because he can get away with it, without having to face any consequences. Why not take a stand, and show him where the door is?

Why do you stick around? Can't understand why anyone would tolerate this level of disrespect!

If you stick around, this is on you.

So sorry to hear this. I'm sure it's emotionally draining and it's hard when you love someone to just leave. My advice is find some male friends and do the same. If he asks and finds out tell him it's only fair. But if he wants to make a pact to not do it he needs to do the same.

Making sure my decision to leave made sense. Obviously he plays innocent and has reasons and excuses for his behavior ... and the ol' switch hats. Makes me feel like the one being unreasonable ect...

Same song and dance. Life goes on.

So sorry to hear this. I'm sure it's emotionally draining and it's hard when you love someone to just leave. My advice is find some male friends and do the same. If he asks and finds out tell him it's only fair. But if he wants to make a pact to not do it he needs to do the same.

Don't do this. It is playing games, and wasting time , on an inappropriate partner.

She should be done with someone who is cheating on and disrespecting her, not putting more energy into it.

No. I agree. I don't play games.

(I appreciate everyone who has helped on my thread. Don't get me wrong.) If he wants a serious relationship then he shouldn't do that.

I have come firmly down on my decision.

Thank you for the advice. I just needed verification