gflo Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 My boyfriend and I met about 2 years ago on Tinder. I honestly wasn’t looking for anything serious. About a week before actually meeting him in person , I had sex with this guy. I wasn’t really talking or messaging my bf at that time that much, and it had barely been days since we talked. As soon as I met my bf in person , it was all about him. I stopped talking to any other guy that would try to approach me. Now I am currently pregnant and idk if it’s because of the hormones but I feel guilty of not telling him what I did before we were official. I know the fight is not worth it because I didn’t even know him in person nor was the relationship official. Should I feel guilty or should I just drop it? My baby is the most important thing now, and I have the best relationship ever. Just need advice from someone else to feel better. Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 . About a week before actually meeting him in person , I had sex with this guy. . Nooo. . .You are about to relieve your guilt at your boyfriends expense? Why do that? What happened before you met is not his business and certainly nothing to feel guilty about. Enjoy your relationship and congratulations on the baby. Put this behind you where it belongs. Link to comment
greta96 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 You have zero reasons to feel guilty, and he would have no reason to be mad at you. You two hadn't even met in person, which would render you as basically strangers! There is absolutely no point in bringing it up to him, what you did before you met him is irrelevant to your relationship. Link to comment
j.man Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 Resist your urge to create drama where it need not exist. A much bigger red flag than a lady having sex before me would be her feeling compelled to tell me about it. Link to comment
Ziggy123 Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 Sounds like you are maybe experiencing some anxiety? You shouldn't feel bad at all about it, you didn't do anything wrong. Try working in dealing with any anxiety you might be having if that's the case Link to comment
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