DoubleT Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 So, I've met this girl last weekend on a trip with a bunch of friends. The girl was a mutual friend of a friend of mine; so we met in one outing in a club, and hooked up and told each other we were attracted to one another. The following night we hooked up again, but she told me to slow down a bit. I think I added a little bit too much romantic gestures along the hopkup. The last day we ddnt talk much, but I told her that I was attracted to her and her personality made it more than a hookup to me. She told me she's happy I do, and she had a great time with me in the trip, and told me to keep in touch. So, I have her contact and her snapchat. She lives in a different city than I am, but it is just a 5 hour drive. So, I really like this girl and don't want to mess it up. How should I build on it now since we both are back to our respective cities. We ddnt text yet since we came back from the trip. Any tips? Link to comment
Honeycomb8 Posted November 29, 2017 Share Posted November 29, 2017 You guys are in different cities, and she's the type that would hook up with a stranger...Not sure if it's a good idea to try things with her. Link to comment
yatsue Posted November 29, 2017 Share Posted November 29, 2017 I wouldn't not pursue this woman because of a double standard. You very well have hooked up with a near stranger too, as she has. If one judges her, then they also judge you. In addition, the term "hooking up" can range anywhere from kissing, to making out, to oral, or to full blown sex. Not sure to which extent in this case, but I digress... Take this slow, like she stated. Do you want to be more than a hookup or something more? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 29, 2017 Share Posted November 29, 2017 Perhaps in her mind it was a vacation fling. Either way, stay in touch here and there but also do this 6918598]she told me to slow down a bit. Link to comment
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