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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    Have you considered therapy?
    Iíve been to about six different therapist and seen a psychiatrist. I stopped taking my medication myself. I need to start taking it again.

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    Originally Posted by rianblack
    Iíve been to about six different therapist and seen a psychiatrist. I stopped taking my medication myself. I need to start taking it again.
    Yes. You do............

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    What were you diagnosed with that you were prescribed medication for?

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    Originally Posted by itsallgrand
    What were you diagnosed with that you were prescribed medication for?
    I get depressed easily and also diagnosed with borderline bipolar

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    Ok. So if you stopped taking medication cold turkey, that in itself could cause mood swings and heavy feelings.

    Did you feel better while on your meds?

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    Wow if I came off my medication my boyfriend would be running for the hills! Yet I have a worse illness then you.

    You need to go back on medication that's what will help with your anxiety and help you think more clearly about things. Watching porn in my opinion isn't cheating! Now going off and sleeping with other woman is cheating. I think you need to learn how to pick your battles, at the end of the day you know it's something he won't change. You either walk or deal with it.

    Just know this, he's going to bed with you not any of them.

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    Going off meds while manic is very very common.
    Originally Posted by rianblack
    Iíve been to about six different therapist and seen a psychiatrist. I stopped taking my medication myself. I need to start taking it again.

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    While she certainly should be on her meds, I really don't think opinions about porn have anything to do with being on medications or not. There are perfectly healthy women that are uncomfortable with porn. And that is their prerogative. Again, though, if you are uncomfortable with it, you are going to be navigating through a proverbial field of landmines for the rest of your life, so your expectations should reflect reality.

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    Well, I am not the most secure lady, but I have no problem with the BF looking at porn. It's just a way to get the job done more efficiently. I wouldn't worry about porn, unless your love life is suffering because of it (he prefers porn over you). Good luck, I know it can be difficult dealing with insecurities.

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    Sticking to the porn / cheating issue, no, I don't consider it cheating.

    However, I might be jealous of the attention porn gets, or the family pet gets, or a book gets, etc., if I am feeling excluded from his attention/affection.

    Whether I feel excluded is absolutely dependent on the person I am with. I tend to pick people who are lone ducks. It has taught me a few things. I feel excluded when I feel unseen. My current guy is limited in his affection and time, but he is extraordinarily observant. I feel comfortable. I have an ex who was very present, but I didnt feel like he understood my nuances, and I dumped him.

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