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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    Really???? Good luck with that.

    Why so insecure?
    Yes Iím insecure but thatís not helping the fact. Not sure how to turn off my insecurities??

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    Originally Posted by DancingFool
    ....noooooo......

    You need to work on your insecurities OP.
    Yes Iím insecure but thatís not helping the fact. Not sure how to turn off my insecurities??

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    I was asking for you guys help, not judgement!

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    Originally Posted by rianblack
    Yes Iím insecure but thatís not helping the fact. Not sure how to turn off my insecurities??
    That's for you to work on, not him.

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    Originally Posted by rianblack
    I was asking for you guys help, not judgement!
    You asked for advice. It's not judgement, just because you don't like what you are hearing.

    This is about you. Do something positive and work on yourself.

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    You asked for advice. It's not judgement, just because you don't like what you are hearing.

    This is about you. Do something positive and work on yourself.
    What would you suggest?

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    Originally Posted by rianblack
    Ok. And as a female in a committed relationship I donít think itís okay for my boyfriend to fantasize about any other girls. Just as he wishes of me.
    OHHHH girl you're in for a shock

    and no ..it is not cheating .....

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    Originally Posted by rianblack
    What would you suggest?
    Do you make your life about him, or do you have a full life with friends and activities?

    Can you identify where these insecurities come from?

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    Originally Posted by rianblack
    What would you suggest?
    Step one would be learn to accept that viewing porn and fantasizing are not equivalent to cheating. If you object to pornography on a moral grounds, that's fine. Communicate that. But to say "You cant view porn because I am jealous, you should only view me" is nothing more than self serving and forceful adulation.

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    There is no harm in having bounderies and maybe you just need some of those ....

    for example ...In role play I am quite happy to have a houseful climbing on top of me ( but in reality there is just me and my partner ...my invisible partner because I am old, wrinkled and lonely ) but in the role play alsorts is going on ..my boundary is ...no bringing friends we have into the role play ...

    I know you are talking about watching porn not role play , but my point , when I get there , is , is he telling you too much , is he telling you he just slammed one out to porn and the girl was hot etc etc ...how has this all come about ?

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