She texted me at 3am

She texted;

“ I’m probably blocked by now and even though you didn’t treat me the way I wanted to be treated (high maintenance) sometimes I think hmm maybe I shouldof had a boyfriend to keep myself grounded”

****Later that evening I responded*****

***** *****

“No, you are not blocked.

In regards to our relationship, towards the end it was unhealthy and stressful and we didn’t have the tools or maturity to know how to make it work.

Feeling grounded was certainly comfortable but my time apart, while uncomfortable, has been more substantial in terms of growth than I could have imagined.

You need to know yourself before you can be with someone else, you must be grounded yourself without depending on another.

You are part of who I am today and I’m grateful for the time we shared together.

I hope you are doing well. Happy Thanksgiving”

And then like 5 minutes later she responded with;

“I don’t even remember sending that, have a good thanksgiving!!”

*******

I obviously didn’t reply to the last text because it didn’t make me feel very good. I’m over it this girl is ridiculous.

Anyways what are your guys’ thoughts on this?

Drunk texting. I think she misses you but acting tough.

Passive aggressive.

Maybe this is your cue to block her.

5 minutes later she responded with; “I don’t even remember sending that, have a good thanksgiving!!”

I wouldn't respond to her anymore. If she's maintenance, there's a good chance she like the attention as well. Don't give in.

Delete, Block and move don't respond to her anymore.

Good luck.

Getting the urge to write her a letter.. I don’t know why I want to keep going back to this woman just to get sh*t on. I guess I just miss the way we used to be.

Keep your dignity and don’t go back to her. Don’t pay mind to her text - it seems like she wants attention. There are much better quality women you can have in your life that won’t treat you like dirt. It’s hard, but try not to respond. Keep yourself busy!

not remembering sending that!

pfft!

paaaa-lease

you've grown she is still hasn't. big red flag... stay away.

someone better deserves you.