Alice Winter Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 It’s happen today , when I break up with my boyfriend. He started to upload my naked photo with another acc but the same name as me . What should I do ? He post my naked photo everywhere. I don’t know what to do now . He have said that he will post my naked photo if I break up with him and then he really does when I tell him that we are over . What should I do? Someone help me !!!!!!! Please suggest me some advice!!! Link to comment
SweetGirl28 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 This is why you should not send nudes. Tell him you involved the police, I bet he will be quick to delete. How do you know he even did this? Link to comment
gijeanie Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 I get it. He's the only one with the photo and it happened right after the breakup then it probably was him. He wants to hurt you. He's looking for a reaction. It will be hard to prove it was him in court though without concrete evidence. Report it to the police and see what they say but do not respond to him in anyway. Be sure to warn your friends and family. I might even take it a step further and contact his mom and ask her for her help in the matter. That is all you can do. Do not respond online or to him. Report it to Facebook and other websites it was posted. Again do not respond. That's what he wants. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 Call the police ..honestly ...it is serious now , the powers that be have realised cyber abuse is REAL ... Also report the account , it gives you space to say why you are reporting it and they do look into it . Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 Call the police ..honestly ...it is serious now , the powers that be have realised cyber abuse is REAL ... Also report the account , it gives you space to say why you are reporting it and they do look into it . All of this. Report him, OP. To police and to FB administrators. Link to comment
gijeanie Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 To if you call the police even if they can't do much there will be a paper trail if he does anything else. It will show a pattern of harassment if he continues. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 I have just read back ..your mum , dad and brother know , so tell them what has happened now so they can support you . I am not sure how he took a naked picture of you over the internet while you slept ( if I got that right ) , but it is all as dodgy as hell ...so don't be alone with this ..tell your parents so they can help . Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 I have been trying to google * cyber bullying * ..but it has a different link for different countries ..so you google it and it hopefully take you somewhere that can help as well . Link to comment
Seraphim Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 Take a screenshot and report him to the police and FB . Tell him you have informed the police and your family. Do not tell him this before you take the screenshot that is your proof. Link to comment
Liraele Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 It's actually called revenge porn, I believe. It's a unique brand of cyber bullying. Screenshot it, then tell him you're reporting it to the authorities, as advised above. Don't tell him you're reporting it only if he takes it down - report it regardless. This is a potential consequence of sending nudes in general, yes, but that doesn't make it less of a dirt-bag move on the dudes part. It's also not the absolute end of the world, so try your best not to stress about it too much. All you can do now is damage control, and make different decisions in the future if you don't want to run the risk of this happening again. Link to comment
SweetGirl28 Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 I just feel the need to tell you also, since you're probably very young and might do this again---- don't ever send a nude or compromising pic to anyone that shows your face with it. Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 I have been trying to google * cyber bullying * ..but it has a different link for different countries ..so you google it and it hopefully take you somewhere that can help as well . Op: Google "Revenge Porn" because there are specific laws against what he has done. Posting nudes without the nude persons consent is included in Revenge Porn laws. Link to comment
Alice Winter Posted November 15, 2017 Author Share Posted November 15, 2017 Thank you all for give me idea . He make another fake acc of me and send my nake photo through messenger and instragram . My family support me in all way but I cannot let my mom and dad know the through . But it’s a little bit hard to caugh him because he is in another country. ( we are not the same country) anyway thank you all . I think he will not stop until he make my family ashamed. Link to comment
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