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    WallaceNg
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    Question I tired to kiss the girl once...she rejected and blocked my whatsapp.

    So I met one girl on Instagram and she is the kinda my type of girl. We keep contact for a week and dated twice already. Sheís 19 Iím 23.

    Shes very aggressive at the beginning, keep contacting me and even call me several times. She's kinda changed after we first met turned into more indifference tone but still contact me sometime, 30% was initiated by her and 70% by me I guess.

    Both times we dated she was flirty and bumped into to me all the time. So last time(yesterday) we went for the movie and she let me hold her In my arm and even hold hands while watching the movie. She was comfortable with all that So I thought it was the green light and I went for the kiss. She rejected, the suituation went extremely awkward and we soon left after the movie.

    I told her that i am so sorry and I knew she wouldnít forgive me and can block my whatsapp if she want. She then blocked me on WhatsApp. But I messaged her on Instagram tell her what i thought and asked for second chance today. She agreed to unblock me but give me a chance for being friends only.

    Here are some thing I know about her:
    1) She donít wanna get into relationship right now and told me to begin with as a friend. (She said atleast half a year)
    2) She is dating several guys met on the Internet right now and joined some sort of online dating group as well.
    3) She said she is poor and appear to be helpless.
    4) She said she really want a travel companion in the future.

    Few things Iím concerning:
    1) Sheís just a big flirt and manipulating guys around her for ego and attentions or benefits?
    2) I still have feelings for her and hope to see are there any chances or reasons to get her?
    3) Should I really just need to be as a friend and wait?
    4) Should I just cut the cord and screen her out?
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    See- I will not say by characteristics. In general, it's normal to have a cheesy talks while being in relationship with your partner. But getting intimate like kissing and all is way too different than talking.
    When I was in a relationship I had romantic talks, but I never wanted to touch or kiss him or didn't want to do anything of sort. I am firm on my values that I'll never do anything unless I am sure of that he's my man. And only will death apart us.
    The way you've mentioned about your girlfriend well yes just talk to her clearly and leave the decision on her. If she comes back, fine. Otherwise, move on!

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    Quick update : I just tried to ask her out next week but she said not sure because she's kinda busy, but why the hell she still dating with other guys met on the Internet. , maybe i should just cut cord and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WallaceNg [Register to see the link]
    Quick update : I just tried to ask her out next week but she said not sure because she's kinda busy, but why the hell she still dating with other guys met on the Internet. , maybe i should just cut cord and move on.
    Well, if is it so then yes! You must cut the cord and move on. Relationships aren't about dating other guys or girls/betrayal!/cheating etc.

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    She's not into you, OP. Something just doesn't jive between you in person, for her.

    Yes, cut the cord. She rejected you, blocked you, and now is avoiding your date request even though she is apparently open to dating others. There is no sense continuing this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elavohra [Register to see the link]
    Well, if is it so then yes! You must cut the cord and move on. Relationships aren't about dating other guys or girls/betrayal!/cheating etc.
    Sheís not committed as my girlfriend in the first place even she flirt hard with me so technically we arenít in a relationship.

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    Cut the cord mate ...she is just having fun in life , enjoying different men/ attention ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissCanuck [Register to see the link]
    She's not into you, OP. Something just doesn't jive between you in person, for her.

    Yes, cut the cord. She rejected you, blocked you, and now is avoiding your date request even though she is apparently open to dating others. There is no sense continuing this.
    Quote Originally Posted by pippy longstocking [Register to see the link]
    Cut the cord mate ...she is just having fun in life , enjoying different men/ attention ...
    Youíre right...I have the same feeling being involved in her mind game and stringed along. But thank god I tried to kiss her, so I guess I made my position clear and got my answer...sheís just flirt with every guy she meet on the internet

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    Quote Originally Posted by WallaceNg [Register to see the link]
    Youíre right...I have the same feeling being involved in her mind game and stringed along. But thank god I tried to kiss her, so I guess I made my position clear and got my answer...sheís just flirt with every guy she meet on the internet
    And that is how some people are ... so yeah , good you found this out now .

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    I agree with previous comments. On the offtop:

    Quote Originally Posted by WallaceNg [Register to see the link]
    She was comfortable with all that So I thought it was the green light and I went for the kiss. She rejected, the suituation went extremely awkward and we soon left after the movie. I told her that i am so sorry and I knew she wouldnít forgive me and can block my whatsapp if she want.
    Dude, what's there to forgive and why you should be blocked? Did you do something terrible? Harass her somehow? You don't need to say sorry if you try to kiss a girl after cuddling together in a cinema and she rejects that because she's not ready or not into you. It's even less of a reason to "know that somebody won't forgive you" and encourage them to block you. What the heck?

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