gooberJohn Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 I have been in relationship with this girl and moved to her country 3 months ago and lately things are going pretty bad and she is seeking for a breakup. She gets angry over the smallest things.. for instance, I fell asleep in the evening and didn't answer her calls or messages for 4 hours and she ignored me for 3 days. She called me a liar for suddenly ignoring her and I got frustrated and told her she can contact my roommate and I did something stupid.. I showed her my google map activities to show her I never left the house and stayed in my room, I guess this was a really cringe move from my side and I behaved in a similar way before. She gets mad if I don't fill her water when we eat in restaurants and starts ignoring me for 2-3 days. Due to this behaviour, she calls me dumb f**k, stupid and she feels pathetic she has a dumb idiotic boyfriend even though I'm doing master's degree with scholarship. She blames me for causing all the drama but I feel like I'm just struggling to show I care. She told me not to talk to her again. What should I do? I have told her if her life is better without me, I would not bother her. I still love her but I can't be myself around her even because I feel she is very judgemental. I haven't had much experience with relationships so I've started to feel I'm dumb and I've started to feel worthless (maybe I need to work on improving my self-esteem more). Link to comment
Honeycomb8 Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 She's abusive and has trashed your self esteem. Don't go back to her, you were NOT in the wrong. She has issues and that's why she vents all this unnecessary anger onto you. I don't know why you tolerated it in the past, but definitely, going forward NEVER ever allow anyone to treat you like this again. Block her and move on. She's toxic. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 She is abusive and manipulative. This is very unhealthy. You should be done with her. NOW! Link to comment
glitterfingers Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 She's bad news and she can't handle herself in a relationship. That's the real reason she left. It's got nothing to do with you, but she makes it about you because she can't accept that really she is the one at fault. Once you see that, you will be free to move on from her tyranny Link to comment
DanZee Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 Yeah, she's trying to break you down. Sort of like the way you train a dog. You should go home or go it alone. Forget about her for all the reasons people have written you. Link to comment
Cope Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 Yes,don't talk to her again! Link to comment
gooberJohn Posted October 13, 2017 Author Share Posted October 13, 2017 Thank you for the replies everyone. Despite this, I have been tried to contact her.. through mail asking her whether she would be interested in talking and why she is ignoring me. She said I'm annoying her. I now realise its time to stop talking to her. However, I still want to let her know how much she hurt me, how much she blackmailed me by emotionally abusing me all the time.. I want to tell her this even though this might end any slight chance of being with her again. I think I'll her. Link to comment
kamurj Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 Multiple accounts are not allowed. Thread closed. Link to comment
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