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    A list of 'could get with' girls

    I was dating a guy for a while (not bf gf) but he never committed and I moved away from his country.
    He recently decided to come and visit. Before he visited me, he was travelling alone in another country, where obviously he met some new people, guys and girls.

    When he was visiting me, I accidentally saw that in his planner he wrote, during his travels that:

    'could probably get with
    - American girl (girl's name)
    - English girl (name)
    - Aussie girl (name)'

    next to one of the girls name he wrote a 'tick' and 'that simple' a few days later.

    Please tell me what I am supposed to make of this guy, and what this list reflects about him.

    Is this normal, and what men do? or does it reflect something about him and that I should just forget about this man.

    FYI, he's in his mid-twenties and a working professional.

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    Sounds like a player setting up the field to play. I guess it is normal for some men, but by no means normal for ALL men. If you were hoping for a relationship this is not the guy to do that with.

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    by writing 'could get with' and with a 'tick' next to the girl's name, does that mean he had sex with her?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Keyman [Register to see the link]
    If you were hoping for a relationship this is not the guy to do that with.
    do you mind elaborating on why?
    not now or probably never?
    my question is if this is a phase thing or points more to character/ personality.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blueowl32 [Register to see the link]
    by writing 'could get with' and with a 'tick' next to the girl's name, does that mean he had sex with her?
    That would be my assumption yes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blueowl32 [Register to see the link]
    do you mind elaborating on why?
    not now or probably never?
    my question is if this is a phase thing or points more to character/ personality.
    That's a harder question.

    That is the life of some guys, while it can be a phase for others. I would suggest it likely that he is,' sowing his wild oats' while he is young and seems to have the confidence to do so. This just means for now, and it sounds like you were on his list at some point too, likely now with a tick against you. As the years pass, he will likely grow bored of this lifestyle and want to settle down, but it will likely take a strong woman to rope him in. Or as Hollywood would suggest, he meets his match in a female player.

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    Good god what a plank

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    Quote Originally Posted by pippy longstocking [Register to see the link]
    Good god what a plank
    I am. I am hooked with this man. FML.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blueowl32 [Register to see the link]
    I am. I am hooked with this man. FML.
    I am talking about him not you

    what does FML mean

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    FML means 'F*** my life'

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