solidcase Posted September 20, 2017 Share Posted September 20, 2017 I'm 23 years old and I've never been in a real relationship - I've had a couple one-night stands and two friends with benefits -type situations that I had mistakenly invested my emotions in. I've never had anyone I could say was my boyfriend. I don't get asked out, I don't get hit on. I do not understand. I'm not gorgeous or anything, but I'm healthy and think I'm pretty/cute. I've got a good sense of humor as far as I laugh freely at things and am not offended by much of anything. I'm full of flaws but I hide them really, really well. As in a person wouldn't know about my major flaws unless/until they're actually involved. I am shy (especially around people I'm interested in) but I know lots of shy girls who've been able to get a freaking date. This has been driving me crazy! What in the world could I be doing/not doing to have this much trouble? I'm 23 and it's been almost 3 years since I've had a freaking date/sex/any romantic contact with the opposite sex. I feel incredibly abnormal. Link to comment
WombatShadow Posted September 20, 2017 Share Posted September 20, 2017 Are you doing any hobbies that bring you into contact with potential dates? Are you actively seeking them? A lot of shy girls get help from friends, or they end up actually dating a friend, both routes kind of allow them to sneak in the back way and avoid all the awkwardness. Link to comment
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