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    Is it abnormal for a girl to make a guy wear a condom for oral?

    I have been seeing this guy and things progressed faster than I would like them to, but we ended up messing around. He went down on me but I honestly come more easily from being fingered than oral. I was trying to return the favor with my hand but then he asked me to go down on him. I asked him to wear a condom for that and he acted like I was insane. Part of his reasoning was bc he went down on me without protection and he doesn't in serious relationships.... and I'm thinking "well jerk off you haven't asked me to be your girlfriend" but even still I'm on bc and still expect the guy to wear a condom even in a serious relationship. He hasn't talked to me since and I'm unsure what to do if he tries to get back in touch. Other guys have also found it strange when I asked them to put a condom on for oral. Am I the weird one? Do people not wear condoms if in a committed relationship? Getting more mad at him as I write!

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    I wouldn't give a bj with a condom on , I want a mouth of man not a mouthful of rubber ( well I would rather have a cake if I am honest but hey ho ) ....and for them the pleasure factor in it must drop by 99% .

    However he can't expect it just because he did it to you .

    There is nothing wrong in you protecting yourself from STD's ....however your reasoning doesn't seem to have anything to do with sexual health

    and I'm thinking "well jerk off you haven't asked me to be your girlfriend" but even still I'm on bc and still expect the guy to wear a condom even in a serious relationship.
    I think you will struggle with this once in a serious relationship .. opinions differ so much on here , but for me , I dont need to be in a serious relationship to give BJ without a condom .. I would not bother doing it .

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    It might be uncommon but it's not an unreasonable request since STDs can be transmitted orally

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1a1a [Register to see the link]
    It might be uncommon but it's not an unreasonable request since STDs can be transmitted orally
    I think you may find that a lot of us ( well let me change that to people I know as opposed to people on here ) would rather wait for the results of an STD test rather then give a bj to a condom .

    edit to say I thought I was replying to the op , just realised .

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    Quote Originally Posted by pippy longstocking [Register to see the link]
    I think you may find that a lot of us ( well let me change that to people I know as opposed to people on here ) would rather wait for the results of an STD test rather then give a bj to a condom .

    edit to say I thought I was replying to the op , just realised .
    Pippy I like you more and more! Hahaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by dias [Register to see the link]
    Pippy I like you more and more! Hahaha
    hahahaha you're making me chuckle here

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    Yeah that is super weird... I don't see any guy agreeing to that. Better to just ask him to get an std test.

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    I have asked guys to do that in the past and that's even worse. They usually say they have already recently and I'm thinking can I see the results?

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    "[QUOTE=pippy longstocking;6882153]I wouldn't give a bj with a condom on , I want a mouth of man not a mouthful of rubber ( well I would rather have a cake if I am honest but hey ho ) ....and for them the pleasure factor in it must drop by 99% .

    However he can't expect it just because he did it to you .

    There is nothing wrong in you protecting yourself from STD's ....however your reasoning doesn't seem to have anything to do with sexual health"


    I feel like☝️ that's a pretty big leap. Before all of this I actually asked if he had a condom in the heat ou'd the moment bc I was going too go ahead and have sex with him. Then he said he didn't have any.(in his own apartment) I found this shocking bc he is the one pushing all of this since the first date. He knew I was coming over. I even have some at my place but didn't bring any bc that wasn't my original intention. I guess he really does expect every girl to sleep with him without a condom. Well surprise! I'm not!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lolala [Register to see the link]
    I have asked guys to do that in the past and that's even worse. They usually say they have already recently and I'm thinking can I see the results?
    You have every right to ask to see them ... we all do

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