Was it rape?

[mustlovedogs]

^ you say some pretty awful stuff.

Memory does not relate to consent. Asking to stop means there is no consent. You're wrong, and it's silly you're arguing.

[~Seraphim ~]

Thank sh.. for legal definitions and advocacy groups and rape counsellors who know what is what.

[JaggerJim]

^ you say some pretty awful stuff.

Memory does not relate to consent. Asking to stop means there is no consent. You're wrong, and it's silly you're arguing.

What happens if he did not remember? Was he raped too?

[~Seraphim ~]

What happens if he did not remember? Was he raped too?

He perpetrated the sex so no. If it had been the other way around then yes. However him not remembering doesn't give him a free pass .

[mustlovedogs]

Ah yes, then bachelorette parties are designed to cheat. You're right.

[~Seraphim ~]

Have you been raped Vicky? Because you know if it ever happens you won't like it when you get faced with your own attitude. Because statistically speaking you could be in your life time.

[Vicky89]

So , YOU decide what is acceptable in someone else's marriage?

You are right, how dare I suggest she act like a respectable taken woman. I must be living in 1914 where wives didn't go out clubbing getting wasted and cheating on their husbands then blaming it on the other guy because they can't take any responsibilities for themselves, it's always someone elses fault.

[JaggerJim]

You know this for sure do you? Were you there?

Were you there too? This guy could be completely innocent. He slept with a drunk woman.

[~Seraphim ~]

Were you there too? This guy could be completely innocent. He slept with a drunk woman.

That does not make him innocent . That is listed as a criminal offence in the criminal code . Why don't people actually read laws ? The OP has already been speaking to rape counsellors . And they have told her it is rape . And I think they probably know the law better than people who don't read it .

[HeartGoesOn]

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