firstluvstruck Posted June 23, 2017 Share Posted June 23, 2017 I think what I miss at the moment is having a friend to talk to like we used to. She became the only person I really talked to for the better part of 2 years. I wanted to vent and put it out there. It helps. Link to comment
ginaloribic Posted June 23, 2017 Share Posted June 23, 2017 I can totally get that feeling. I'm in a similar situation myself, except my ex will still happily talk to me about anything, I'm just not sure that it feels right to do so. Get out there, keep moving forward. Find someone to confide in that isn't your ex. You can do this. Link to comment
Aturneve Posted June 23, 2017 Share Posted June 23, 2017 I had similar situation like you, move on! Link to comment
timestand43 Posted June 23, 2017 Share Posted June 23, 2017 Hey, I understand. While me and my ex were together, I was basically glued to my phone. Got a message from her like every minute! It was crazy, from the moment we woke up, to the moment we both went to sleep. The only times we were really not texting each other were while we were together or at school. It's been a month now, and we just don't talk anymore. No more messages, no more time together talking about whatever came to our minds. My best friend. Now I'm unsure at times. I believe in you, remember we're all here with you somehow. Do your best, and have your own back, it's all we can ever do sometimes. Link to comment
firstluvstruck Posted June 23, 2017 Author Share Posted June 23, 2017 Mine will talk to but what's the point. . It will just get me hooked more. She had left me a voice mail the other day to check in on me. . Wishing that I am happy and life is good. Part of me still gets angry. . If you care so much why didn't you have faith. I also just got sick. . Made me weak I guess. Today is better. Sun is shining! Just got to stop thinking about it! Link to comment
Careerchoice Posted June 23, 2017 Share Posted June 23, 2017 I think what I miss at the moment is having a friend to talk to like we used to. She became the only person I really talked to for the better part of 2 years. I wanted to vent and put it out there. It helps. Nothing about what you're feeling is abnormal. Most of us will feel this way in your situation. Hold on to this takeaway from your previous relationship: What you found before, you can find again. Your ex is not a unicorn. If you meet enough girls, you will find that there are many that can give you better than what you had with her. You just have to be patient and do the work it takes to find them. It's all about looking toward the future with a blind eye to the past, at least for the time being. You can always look back later, once you're in a better place. Link to comment
Careerchoice Posted June 23, 2017 Share Posted June 23, 2017 Mine will talk to but what's the point. . It will just get me hooked more. She had left me a voice mail the other day to check in on me. . Wishing that I am happy and life is good. Part of me still gets angry. . If you care so much why didn't you have faith. I also just got sick. . Made me weak I guess. Today is better. Sun is shining! Just got to stop thinking about it! I know it sounds like a broken record to you by now, but the best thing you could do to start your healing would be to cut off all communication with her. It'll stop you from spinning your wheels. Link to comment
firstluvstruck Posted June 23, 2017 Author Share Posted June 23, 2017 I basically have. She reached out. Should I block her number? Link to comment
Careerchoice Posted June 23, 2017 Share Posted June 23, 2017 I basically have. She reached out. Should I block her number? It would be what's best for you. And this is a time where you should be selfish. She's not looking out for your well-being right now so it's up to you. Link to comment
firstluvstruck Posted June 23, 2017 Author Share Posted June 23, 2017 ok. thanks. I'm excited to be finished with my exam in 2 weeks so I can go out and actually meet these women I've been talking to. to finally get out of my room. Link to comment
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