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    jennylove
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    I always unblock him out of curiosity

    Anyone else have this problem? I unblock him because I still love him and I dint know how he'll get in touch with me if he's ever single again if I keep him blocked. I'm no longer on any social media and we don't have mutual friends. He still texts me to say how much he loves me and wants to marry me, thinks about me non stop all day...but he has a gf. And for whatever reason, he won't break up with her.

    This has been going on for years, these texts of his all while he's had the same gf.

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    If he can still text you, then he's not blocked. So if you dont want to communicate with him, block him on your phone. Problem solved.

    He's keeping you in his back pocket, just in case his current gf and he break up and/or to annoy the hell out of you. Time to hang this one up and get on with your life. If he can do this to his gf he can do it to you.

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    I guess what I'm saying is I don't have the willpower to keep him blocked. I have blocked him, but then I'll unblock him eventually. I won't text him after I unblock, but he always texts me within a week of me unblocking him, and of course, I'll respond. His most latest text said he wants to get me pregnant. Ok, great. But you have a gf. No response.

    I want to end this. I really really do. Brain is saying to block, heart says, Unblock

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    Quote Originally Posted by jennylove [Register to see the link]
    I guess what I'm saying is I don't have the willpower to keep him blocked. I have blocked him, but then I'll unblock him eventually. I won't text him after I unblock, but he always texts me within a week of me unblocking him, and of course, I'll respond. His most latest text said he wants to get me pregnant. Ok, great. But you have a gf. No response.

    I want to end this. I really really do. Brain is saying to block, heart says, Unblock
    Sweetie let me direct you to this post by myself. It will let you know where the road you're walking on leads because I used to have the same problem.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LordRorek [Register to see the link]
    Sweetie let me direct you to this post by myself. It will let you know where the road you're walking on leads because I used to have the same problem.
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    Yeah, looks like I'm in your old boat. I didn't look st the date of that thread/post of yours, I'm curious how are you now? Did you finally block her and keep her blocked?

    I can't figure them out. He is very close to his siblings and parents. yet, she isn't FB friends with any of them after all these years. That seems very odd to me, especially considering that his siblings add everyone! Pictures of them? Nope. She changes her profile pic and cover pic every month or so...and it's always a solo selfie of herself. He hasnt t changed his profile pic in 5 years. He keeps telling me that he wants to see me to explain their relationship. I told him I don't care about the details.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jennylove [Register to see the link]
    Yeah, looks like I'm in your old boat. I didn't look st the date of that thread/post of yours, I'm curious how are you now? Did you finally block her and keep her blocked?

    I can't figure them out. He is very close to his siblings and parents. yet, she isn't FB friends with any of them after all these years. That seems very odd to me, especially considering that his siblings add everyone! Pictures of them? Nope. She changes her profile pic and cover pic every month or so...and it's always a solo selfie of herself. He hasnt t changed his profile pic in 5 years. He keeps telling me that he wants to see me to explain their relationship. I told him I don't care about the details.
    I posted that today.

    I have had to learn the hard way that looking at his facebook and even dignifying him with a response is only going to bring you more pain.

    Trust me I don't want you to have to learn that lesson the way I did. As far as him wanting to talk about your relationship while he is with his new GF....

    Don't even dignify the pig with a response you are clearly too good for that misogynistic snake in the grass. You have to detox and realize that by unblocking him you are only letting him think that you want him back in your life.

    Men like him are a disease and only time and emotional distance are the cure.

    P.S. If you would like to PM me to talk about things I am always here for those in need.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LordRorek [Register to see the link]
    I posted that today.

    I have had to learn the hard way that looking at his facebook and even dignifying him with a response is only going to bring you more pain.

    Trust me I don't want you to have to learn that lesson the way I did. As far as him wanting to talk about your relationship while he is with his new GF....

    Don't even dignify the pig with a response you are clearly too good for that misogynistic snake in the grass. You have to detox and realize that by unblocking him you are only letting him think that you want him back in your life.

    Men like him are a disease and only time and emotional distance are the cure.

    P.S. If you would like to PM me to talk about things I am always here for those in need.
    P.P.S. If you want to learn about my break up I posted it here: [Register to see the link]
    Ok I'm going to PM you. Respond when you have time, no rush. I really appreciate this. Please PM me with any problem of yours, too. My head isn't very clear right now but I will try to help.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jennylove [Register to see the link]
    Anyone else have this problem? I unblock him because I still love him and I dint know how he'll get in touch with me if he's ever single again if I keep him blocked. I'm no longer on any social media and we don't have mutual friends. He still texts me to say how much he loves me and wants to marry me, thinks about me non stop all day...but he has a gf. And for whatever reason, he won't break up with her.

    This has been going on for years, these texts of his all while he's had the same gf.
    If he loved you, he would be with you. He is looking to cheat on his girlfriend. Why don't you find the texts disrespectful? Do his actions represent a man who loves you?

    Move on with your life and block him, once and for all.

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    How many years has this been going on?

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    Quote Originally Posted by boltnrun [Register to see the link]
    How many years has this been going on?
    4 years, Sadly.

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