Heartbroken & Wanting Advice

So I met my ex in 2014, he has been coming and going from my life for the past 3 years. When I met him his dad had just committed suicide and he was drinking alot and suicidal at times himself. We broke up in March 2015, he wanted to work it out till he ditched me in June 2015 for another girl. Then he came back in July and we stayed in contact till November 2015 then he blocked me and changed his number and we had no contact for 6 months then in May 2016 we got back in contact and started hanging out again and got really close we hung out the whole summer then his mom found out and he said we couldn't hang out anymore. During this time he even went as far as asking me to move to a new town with him. However even though his mom wouldn't approve he kept seeing me then the mom wrote me in Christmas threatening me with the police. I asked him about it and he said to ignore her.

In January he started school, and moved out of town and I thought for sure ok he would move on. Being at college, however he didn't, he kept coming home on weekends and spending time with me. We even got so close again, about a month back he wanted me to admit I was in love with him and he told me we are not together yet but will be. He wanted to get his life together. He said it gives him an ego boost though that I love him.

Anyway we have been continually hanging out till this past week, Friday night rolls around and I never heard from him but he went away camping. Then he messages me Saturday asking if I had a new boyfriend because he seen a pic of a guy on my profile and then said whatever he doesn't care.

Then yesterday he messaged me asking me if I wanted to see him and have sex and I agree then he asks for porn to be sent(he is addicted to porn) and so I start too then he says never mind, I can't go too your house anymore I am seeing someone, and I said since when and he goes now and I shouldn't sleep with you. We can't ever speak or see each other again but if you do speak to me I will call the cops on you or if you destroy my relationship. I then said well good luck to you and your girlfriend then he said she is not my *ucking girlfriend and I t hink you will do everything in your power to get me back and prevent me from being happy.

Do you think I will ever hear from him again? He has gone from my life like 5 times now, he acts like a narcissist. I am so heartbroken that he met a new girlfriend.

Why on earth would you want to hear from a person like this again?

A porn addict whose mother threatens you (or was it actually him, pretending to be his mom?) and openly admits its boosts his ego that you love him and disappears multiple times - what a catch!

Seriously, OP, where are your standards? He would not have even been able to buy me a 7-Up and Twizzlers from the corner store, that's how far below my standards he falls. Why do you permit to use you like this?

a bit of advice - forget him, move on, spend some time on your own then find somone decent. you deserve much better.

good luck.

I think it was his mom because it was from her facebook account. Then he told me his mom is just crazy. I just love him because we have been through so much and I thought the last 6 months things were finally changing we were getting close again and he even talked about us together again. He wanted me to admit I love him. But for his ego?

He just watches porn 24/7 and comes up with crazy ideas. I actually kind of wondered if it was him however it was from his mom's facebook account

He just watches porn 24/7 and comes up with crazy ideas. I actually kind of wondered if it was him however it was from his mom's facebook account

This guy is a complete mess.

You are wasting your time hoping he comes back. Because even if he does, he will be the same joker he has always been. He's not suddenly going to start loving you or caring about you.

Think about why you believe you "love" someone who treats you so horribly.

Do you think having someone treat you badly for several years means you two have some kind of bond or something? Because that's really unhealthy.

I just didn't think a guy who didn't give a damn about you would keep coming back to a girl after 2 years when there is like a thousand other women out there he easily could have been with. None of my other exes did that. He kept saying we would work out.