blkjohnnyquest Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 Just found out my fiancee had a threesome in her past mmf not only that shes also had sex with random men on Craigslist not only that she was also interested in women. I'm deeply disgusted because this person I thought I knew isn't who I thought she was. I've asked her before about the threesome and she lied. Link to comment
Heavy Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 The past is the past. But if you can not get over this then you have a choice to make, "Do you stay or do you go"? Link to comment
Fracturedheart Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 She disrespected your relationship when she lied. She took the choice away from you to make up your mind about her past and whether you would have wanted to pursue a relationship knowing her past. That's very selfish of her and she broke trust. In my opinion that's not forgivable but only you know her and only you can make a decision about what to do. Best of luck Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 According to your previous threads, you've known for at least the past 2 years, that this is who she is. Having said that, hopefully you're not playing us here. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 Hold on a minute. You knew she had a past when you first started dating her when she called out some other guys name during sex. Then she let you know about her past and you chose to stay with her so how can you punish her now for what happened back then? You have a child together, are engaged and have been through a lot. I think before you let your initial reaction ruin all this you should take a few days and think about it and once the shock has worn off a little see how you feel. Remember she hasn't done any of those things since she met you and she really isn't that person any longer. Lost Link to comment
blkjohnnyquest Posted May 17, 2017 Author Share Posted May 17, 2017 Yeah I told her I was done Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 You've been posting about this since 2015. What exactly do you need help with? Link to comment
blkjohnnyquest Posted May 17, 2017 Author Share Posted May 17, 2017 You've been posting about this since 2015. What exactly do you need help with? my decision is to break it off, I really dont know who I'm dealing with. Link to comment
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