I really need HELP

I've never posted in this kind of thing before, but now I really don't know what to do anymore.

I'm a 19 years old girl and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend (21) since 2 years and a half. We've been living together since almost a year. He is my first boyfriend, and I've wanted to leave him a couple of times now but never could. I feel like we're just friends, but I know he loves me a lot.

Recently I met someone online I really like and I know he likes me back. I haven't told him about my actual relationship and I feel very bad about it.

With my actual boyfriend, I feel safe and I know I can really be myself. I really love him, but only as a friend. If it wasn't for the new guy, i think I'd stay with him regardless of how I really feel, because it works.

I really don't know what I should do, and I feel terrible for everything.

I really need help... thank you

When you hide things like this from the people who are affected, you deprive them of the ability to make their own choices. That's incredibly selfish of you. Be honest and treat people with respect.

You need to end it with your boyfriend. You've outgrown that relationship and it's not fair to stay with him when you feel like he's just a friend.

Free both of you so you can each find someone better-suited to you.

Are you on dating sites? Have you met this other guy in person? Did you move in as roommates or bf/gf? Is there still sex with the roommate/bf? He hasn't noticed you are "just a friend"?

Why are you stringing both these guys along? Do you need a lot of attention? Move out and get with the new guy.

We've been living together since almost a year. I really love him, but only as a friend. If it wasn't for the new guy, i think I'd stay with him regardless of how I really feel, because it works.

break up . You're already emotionally cheating on him .

Yes what sad girl said. It's not right that you are moving on and the poor guy doesn't have a clue.

Have you even met the online guy in person?

You are lying to both of them. This does not make you a stand up person.

Break up with your boyfriend and move out.

It sounds like you don't want to be alone, so you will continue to string your current boyfriend along. [-X Never a good idea.

Find some balls and go for the new guy. It's what you want to do, right?