No Contact

Trying to be apply no contact, but she texts after just 24 hours. Do I ignore her? I do want her back.

You're not in "NC" if you're leaving an opening for her to contact you. Unless you're practicing "NC" for the right reasons, it simply won't work.

Your call...

Consider her intentions for reaching out.

Is she reaching out to you to see how you are doing?

Is it remorse/regret from her decision?

Remember - all of the baggage that existed in the relationship is still there. The key to success is making both parties aware of said baggage and putting action plans to address & resolve those issues.

I envy your ex is coming back so quickly! :sorrow:

Yep, she faux broke up to get what she wants...lol...marriage at 18 because 'she only gives her vcard to a husband'.

Be strong, call her bluff and let her sweat a bit and remind her that of because of this statement, you need to give her the space she asked for and need to stay no contact 44;6799542] She says she is having an identity crisis and needs to figure herself out.

If you want her back make it clear. Why play games?

Well, she's in love with me and wants me she just had doubts about me being her husband in the future because she's never experienced life without me. This is the reason I'm trying not to talk to her, but she's the one that comes back.

& she's the one that called it off

A girl who is in love with you doesn't break up with you. Period.

If that's what she's telling you, she's full of malarkey and trying to keep you as a back-up plan while she lives the single life.