Questions for anyone who had an emotional affair

Anyone here ever had an emotional affair.

If so, did it change your perception of your spouse or your relationship?

If it did, how quickly did you start to see your spouse/relationship differently?

Thanks

Jrs

Affairs of any type do not improve relationships or 'wake anyone up' to reconcile and live happily ever after.

Here is a couple of stories for those of you clinging on to hope. Just bear in mind that reconciliation requires the will and power from both parties.

1. A good friend of mine was together with his girlfriend for around 5-6 years.One day he accidently saw a text on her phone from some dude. It turned out that she had invited that dude over for a sexual affair.

2. Another friend of mine had been together with his wife for 9 years.She had fallen in love with a guy over there.

3. A third good friend of mine, married and been together for maybe 5-8 years, accidently looked at his wife’s phone one day she forgot it going to work, and he discovered that she had an affair.