Hello.........I am new to the forum and would really like some help with a situation concerning my boyfriend.
I have been dating a wonderful individual now for 2 1/2 months. He is very loving and caring. He makes me very
happy and well get along very well. The only problem I have with him is his appearance. No, I don't mean hygiene,
or how he grooms himself, I am talking about his skin conditions. To give you some background, he has alot of melanin
in his skin and played gold without using sunscreen and has developed large moles on his face, back and chest. He has had
surgery recently as one was cancerous. He is a nice looking man, but for the moles, they really detract from his appearance.
I think that is why he doesn't upload photos of himself on facebook.
My question and this is where I need your help is, how to approach him about the moles and delicately share with him my concern
for potentially more of them could become cancerous. I don't think I should tell him it would certainly improve his appearance, or should
I say that?? That seems rather harsh. Personally I have had 10 removed because cancer runs in my family.
Please advise me when and how to approach him about this....
Thank you for listening.