Rapunzel111 Posted April 17, 2017 Share Posted April 17, 2017 I exchanged some selfies with a guy on tinder who I have never really met him in person. And I also sent him a pic of me with a bra (no face). And we also sexting for a few days... And I just asked him if he can delete my photos... he said "yeah, dont worry about it" Is that mean a yes? Or does that mean something else? Link to comment
Rapunzel111 Posted April 17, 2017 Author Share Posted April 17, 2017 Any thoughts? I am so confused right now. Actually the pics are nothing topless and nothing important have shown, but I am just so regret of giving pics to some strangers... it felt so insecure Link to comment
mustlovedogs Posted April 17, 2017 Share Posted April 17, 2017 It doesn't matter what it means. He can do what he wants with them and you'll never know. Take this as a lesson. Link to comment
Rapunzel111 Posted April 17, 2017 Author Share Posted April 17, 2017 I am so scared what if he posted it online? Link to comment
Clio Posted April 17, 2017 Share Posted April 17, 2017 He may keep his word or not. You have no control over this so worrying is pointless. There is nothing you can do at this point. Just don't do it again. Link to comment
jujusamples Posted April 17, 2017 Share Posted April 17, 2017 I am so scared what if he posted it online? Just take it as a lesson learnt! At this point, all you could do is take what he says at face value. Don't stress over it, nothing you could do to control what he does with your photos. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted April 17, 2017 Share Posted April 17, 2017 Unless they are asking to meet in person, they are not interested. The pics you are sending are for some random did dude you never met to masturbate to. Why bother doing that? Delete and block this guy. When using dating apps, only send a couple messages back and forth to set up meeting and never send random people pornography of yourself. Shut down creeps asap. Unfortunately, you can implore someone to delete pics all you want but once you push send, you lose all control of those images.I exchanged some selfies with a guy on tinder who I have never really met him in person. And I also sent him a pic of me with a bra And we also sexting for a few days. Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted April 17, 2017 Share Posted April 17, 2017 I am so scared what if he posted it online? If they end up on line, do not associate your name with them. Don't click on them, search for them, nothing. They will quickly be buried in the heap of sexy selfies and nobody will notice. They are faceless, yes? So a facial recognition search won't track them. Unless this guy does something vindictive, you'll be okay. And if he does something vindictive, then you post a high volume of positive posts about yourself. Give them lots of activity, clicks, searches. The search engines will put the more frequently requested positive posts ahead of the bad ones. Link to comment
Rapunzel111 Posted April 17, 2017 Author Share Posted April 17, 2017 If they end up on line, do not associate your name with them. Don't click on them, search for them, nothing. They will quickly be buried in the heap of sexy selfies and nobody will notice. They are faceless, yes? So a facial recognition search won't track them. Unless this guy does something vindictive, you'll be okay. And if he does something vindictive, then you post a high volume of positive posts about yourself. Give them lots of activity, clicks, searches. The search engines will put the more frequently requested positive posts ahead of the bad ones. Thanks guys... ya theres nth I can do It feels so insecure!! Definitely lesson learnt and I have already deleted all my online dating accounts Link to comment
Batya33 Posted April 17, 2017 Share Posted April 17, 2017 Why delete your dating accounts? Meeting people through on line sites is one of a number of great ways to meet people. Just don't send strangers photos like that. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted April 17, 2017 Share Posted April 17, 2017 They are faceless? That's good. Relax. I would refrain from sending such photos in the future, if you're really worried. Link to comment
Rapunzel111 Posted April 18, 2017 Author Share Posted April 18, 2017 I have never met a really normal guy online. Maybe its my problem.. Link to comment
Rapunzel111 Posted April 18, 2017 Author Share Posted April 18, 2017 Ya i dont know why I would sexting and send pics to a stranger... i was so stupid... Link to comment
Batya33 Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 Ya i dont know why I would sexting and send pics to a stranger... i was so stupid... If you want to meet someone in person who you first contact on line, and you want that person to be "normal" one suggestion is not to send those photos and if asked for photos like that understand that his values and goals are probably not in line with yours. Link to comment
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