Not sure what to do anymore...I care about her.

[Hollyj]

You need help for your addiction to this woman.

You have been going through this for some time, and nothing has changed. You also need to understand that she is simply using you for support, if she cared about you, she would not be using you, and continuing to run back to the abusive bf. She will always chose him over you.

Don't you think it is time you got help, so that you can recognize and want a healthy relationship.

Please look up CODA. Block and delete, and move on with your life.

[Hawkman85]

You need help for your addiction to this woman.

You have been going through this for some time, and nothing has changed. You also need to understand that she is simply using you for support, if she cared about you, she would not be using you, and continuing to run back to the abusive bf. She will always chose him over you.

Don't you think it is time you got help, so that you can recognize and want a healthy relationship.

Please look up CODA. Block and delete, and move on with your life.

I guess the only thing is. It hasn't really stopped me from seeing others. I have a pretty active dating life and sex life...
It's mostly bothers me when I'm alone or see her.

[Hawkman85]

You need help for your addiction to this woman.

You have been going through this for some time, and nothing has changed. You also need to understand that she is simply using you for support, if she cared about you, she would not be using you, and continuing to run back to the abusive bf. She will always chose him over you.

Don't you think it is time you got help, so that you can recognize and want a healthy relationship.

Please look up CODA. Block and delete, and move on with your life.

But I do 100% appreciate what you are saying. I do have an unhealthy thing going on for her.

[Hawkman85]

This is my first time experiencing domestic violence and I don't like bullies so I feel like I need to be there bc she's not telling her family anything.

[Hollyj]

I guess the only thing is. It hasn't really stopped me from seeing others. I have a pretty active dating life and sex life...
It's mostly bothers me when I'm alone or see her.

You shouldn't be dating others, when you are so attached to her.

You are not hearing what we are saying: only she can help herself. Not you.

Are you going to seek therapy?

[Hawkman85]

You shouldn't be dating others, when you are so attached to her.

You are not hearing what we are saying: only she can help herself. Not you.

Are you going to seek therapy?

Never really considered it. This is really the first time I've talked about it

[Hawkman85]

Cutting her off is a good place to start...

[Hawkman85]

Does anyone believe he will change? 1 month sober does that prove anything?

[Hollyj]

Does anyone believe he will change? 1 month sober does that prove anything?

This is not your problem. Deal with your own issues.

No. He will not. He has more issues than the drinking.

[Hawkman85]

This is not your problem. Deal with your own issues.

No. He will not. He has more issues than the drinking.

Thank you for your honesty.