Is he still attracted to me, he masturbates way more than we have sex?

So some months ago my boyfriend started not finishing when we had sex more often than not. When I would ask he would say it's not me or that he's tired or his head hurts.

Now we're having sex less and he masturbates every time I'm gone. I already want more sex than him and he would even say it's crazy to want sex like three times a week but yet he masturbated literally five days in a row.

He still says I'm sexy and he'll act like he wants sex but usually it doesn't happen. I am willing to do different things but he is apparently not interested in that.

Besides this he does love me and is always sweet and also is serious about me. Before when I would ask him about porn he acted like he didn't watch it much but that's probably not true clearly.

This is making me feel so bad and also frustrated about sex, I even get so jealous seeing in movies or hearing or whatever about sex.

Is he out of shape or having health problems? Masturbating is less effort than sex, physically. What about other things like oral? Why does he have to finish?

How long have you been together? Did the sex drop off when you moved in with him? Is there conflict outside the bedroom?

Now we're having sex less and he masturbates every time I'm gone. I already want more sex than him and he would even say it's crazy to want sex like three times a week but yet he masturbated literally five days in a row.

He has no problems, he has gained weight since we meet but not bad he still works out, just not enough. We've been together two years and we've lived together for a long time.

He doesn't really do oral and he doesn't do other things often. We have been a fighting a bit on and off but usually we're good and this kind of started before that.

If I don't feel comfortable I have trouble finishing. Is he stressed?

Were you living together as roommates before you were a couple? He has never been interested in either giving or receiving oral?

It sounds like you are sexually incompatible but knew that all along and it's just following the trajectory of this incompatibility. He's retreating more and more.

We've been together two years and we've lived together for a long time.He doesn't really do oral and he doesn't do other things often.

We were not roommates. When we first got together it was good though of course that's the honeymoon time but still when we have sex it's good. At least for me. He's never been interested in giving but he has a bit and says he'll try it again and he likes receiving but only if he's clean and never demands it.

I guess he may be a little stressed now but I really don't think he was stressed when it started.

Honestly it sounds like he's watching too much porn. Not finishing making up excuses and now less sex.... Id put my money on porn

Sounds like he's selfish and lazy in bed, that's all. Don't go along with bad sex or one-way sex or infrequent sex or selfish sex, etc.

Why bother? Just end it. Plenty of better men and lovers out there..

He's never been interested in giving but he has a bit and says he'll try it again and he likes receiving.

Honestly it sounds like he's watching too much porn. Not finishing making up excuses and now less sex.... Id put my money on porn

This is what I was thinking too. I once dated a guy who admitted to having a pretty regular porn habit. He never finished during sex. Ever. He would always end up going soft for seemingly no reason. It didn't end up working out, but I always did assume that this was a guy who could indulge himself in his own sexual fantasies so much, he wasn't even interested in the real thing anymore. It's not you, porn has set an unrealistic standard for sex that no real person can actually live up to.

It just sounds like he's being selfish and lazy. It's less work to masturbate than to put in effort to make sure you're satisfied.