did i say the wrong thing? confused

I really have been dating with a girl and 3 days back was the first time we spend time at my place.

We were having a good time launging and playing around and i had music playing in the background.

Couple of days back she was talking about a song she really loved but did not know the name.

Because i had the radio on, at a certain moment the song she was talking about started playing.

It was a really beautiful moment and we were lying in each other arms and we also spend the night together.

But the next day she had to go for a couple of days to spend time with family she had not seen in a long time.

Because she still did not know the name of the song i found it on YouTube.

So i send it to her using whatsapp. Now here is were everything goes wrong......

this is what i text her:

first text: link to song on YouTube -> John Legend - Love Me Now (Lyric Video)

second text: : )

her respons: emoticon that gives a kiss with a heart

my respons: The perfect anwser (emoticon that gives a kiss with a heart)

her respons: emoticon thats blushing

You may think whats the problem. The problem is my respons "The perfect anwser" it makes me feel sick to my stomach.

I have the feeling i messed everything up not only for her but for myself.

Everything i felt for her has been tainted with someting disgusting.

Saying The perfect anwser sounds creepy and sick considering the context and images of the song.

Maybe if it were a different song with a different message it will be ok.

please help! I really care about her. And i feel i just destroyed something really beautiful just because of 1 stupid text message

Not following. What's wrong with the text? Sounds fine to me. I think you're overthinking this.

How long have you been dating? Forget the text exchange and just ask her out again. Skip too many emoji-only texts they are too confusing.

Hello and welcome to the forum.

I'm missing the point here - what makes you think something is wrong a/o that you did something wrong?

Nothing leapt out at me when I read your op, for what it's worth.

it's in combination with the video thats the problem. YouTube: John Legend - Love Me Now (Lyric Video)

it's in combination with the video thats the problem. YouTube: John Legend - Love Me Now (Lyric Video)

Still don't think there's anything wrong with the text you sent.

Yeah don't worry - I don't think you blew it. Chill.

maybe because my anwser was based more on sex and the video was more about caring and love...

thats why it doesn't feel right

Is she still in high school? Why would it upset her? Ask her on a date see if she responds/accepts. Then just forget about whatever misunderstanding there may have been. Learn to be more tech savvy and not botch a simple thing like sending a youtube video.

maybe because my anwser was based more on sex and the video was more about caring and love...

thats why it doesn't feel right

the reason i send the video was because of the caring and love i felt for her.

but when she send that emoticon with the kiss and the heart it reminded me of the sex.

thats why i replied like i did.

yes she still goes to school. and yes i think she still go out with me but i feel like its not gonna be the same for me. i don't understand what wrong with sending a YouTube video?

That's because you're a horny teen. Ask her on a date see if she responds, it's the only way to fix this..

the kiss and the heart it reminded me of the sex

so you agree that it was not the right action

i will ask her out again thanks for the advise

i also think that she doesn't think it's right but she is not saying it. i don't think it's gonna be the same again.