Belgian girl Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 We had intercourse 2nd time and he asked we could kiss but I agreed next time also unprotected sex after many months waiting and blood test But when I test or P.M. him about a vaccin I want me to get in order to let it work out then he doesn't react Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 Why do you want unprotected sex after 2 dates and what vaccine?We had intercourse 2nd time and he asked we could kiss but I agreed next time also unprotected sex after many months waiting and blood test But when I test or P.M. him about a vaccin I want me to get in order to let it work out then he doesn't react Link to comment
JaggerJim Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 Why do you want unprotected sex after 2 dates and what vaccine? Are you trying to get pregnant? Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted February 14, 2017 Author Share Posted February 14, 2017 Gardasil vaccin. Probably tomorrow It is he who asked for kissing and unprotected Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted February 14, 2017 Author Share Posted February 14, 2017 I am not even fertile currently Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted February 14, 2017 Author Share Posted February 14, 2017 He said he wants it because of missing it and of feeling way better Link to comment
boltnrun Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 How do you know you're "not fertile"? And you barely know this guy, but you agreed to unprotected sex because he wanted it and he said it feels better? Why are you willing to put your life at risk for someone you've dated twice? Link to comment
abitbroken Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 I am not even fertile currently How do you know? Do you take an ovulation test every single day? Do you take it at the right time of the day, sometimes even twice. Sorry, but you don't know that for a fact. And what if you are not fertile today, but end up ovulating within the next 9-72 hours. You can definitely become pregnant! Even women who are very regular sometimes drop an egg early or late due to stress. Why on earth would you have unprotected sex with him?? A vaccine does not protect you against STDs, nor does it protect him. It also does not prevent you from becoming pregnant. So what if he asked for unprotected - you say NOOOO. who cares if he says it feels better. You are a very stupid woman if you have unprotected sex. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 Unless you are a prostitute, why would you agree to this?He said he wants it because of missing it and of feeling way better Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted February 15, 2017 Author Share Posted February 15, 2017 Unless you are a prostitute, why would you agree to this? I thought it is like the opposite.. They don't because of STD risk Link to comment
j.man Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 There are plenty of men out there who would gladly have sex with a condom. How do you know this dude doesn't have a STD? Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted February 15, 2017 Author Share Posted February 15, 2017 My eggleaders don't functionate I am chronical ill. Do have a schild wish. Link to comment
abitbroken Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 I thought it is like the opposite.. They don't because of STD risk What was the opposite? I don't understand. You are at risk for STDs if you have unprotected sex. Only prostitutes do everything a man wants to do. You should not have unprotected sex JUST because he wants it. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted February 15, 2017 Author Share Posted February 15, 2017 I told him we shouls both do a test after about six months Link to comment
abitbroken Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 My eggleaders don't functionate I am chronical ill. Do have a schild wish. You can still get an STD. My friend was told she cannot have children. She has endometriosis and had one ovary removed due to cancer. She DID get pregnant. She was surprised. it was a one in a million chance. She has a daughter now. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted February 15, 2017 Author Share Posted February 15, 2017 Also I felt in love with him Link to comment
abitbroken Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 I told him we shouls both do a test after about six months You should not have unprotected sex, test or no test, unless you want a risk of getting pregnant. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 What if he has hiv/aids Gardasil won't help with that. You have an iud (shield?). Prostitutes get extra money if the guy wants unprotected. What's in this for you except a whole bunch of stds? vaccin. It is he who asked for kissing and unprotected Link to comment
abitbroken Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 Also I felt in love with him After only two dates??? Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted February 15, 2017 Author Share Posted February 15, 2017 My topic question was why he doesn't respond Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted February 15, 2017 Author Share Posted February 15, 2017 He lives about an hour from here Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted February 15, 2017 Author Share Posted February 15, 2017 I don't want to bother him with getting pregnant but we both have a childwish. He is almost 40 and I am 30. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted February 15, 2017 Author Share Posted February 15, 2017 I didn't know. I think he wants because he isn't at risk if it is me. Link to comment
abitbroken Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 My topic question was why he doesn't respond Only he can answer that. Maybe he is at work. He lives about an hour from here why does that matter? 2 dates is still not enough to get to know someone and too soon for sex. In my area, living an hour apart is nothing. Everyone drives. Link to comment
abitbroken Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 I didn't know. I think he wants because he isn't at risk if it is me. You are both at risk. You don't know his history and he does not know yours. And you can get pregnant. Link to comment
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