had two dates w/ this guy but I feel ignored; confused about it;he planned a 3th

We had intercourse 2nd time and he asked we could kiss but I agreed next time also unprotected sex after many months waiting and blood test

But when I test or P.M. him about a vaccin I want me to get in order to let it work out then he doesn't react

Why do you want unprotected sex after 2 dates and what vaccine?

We had intercourse 2nd time and he asked we could kiss but I agreed next time also unprotected sex after many months waiting and blood test

But when I test or P.M. him about a vaccin I want me to get in order to let it work out then he doesn't react

Why do you want unprotected sex after 2 dates and what vaccine?

Are you trying to get pregnant?

Gardasil vaccin.

Probably tomorrow

It is he who asked for kissing and unprotected

I am not even fertile currently

He said he wants it because of missing it and of feeling way better

How do you know you're "not fertile"?

And you barely know this guy, but you agreed to unprotected sex because he wanted it and he said it feels better?

Why are you willing to put your life at risk for someone you've dated twice?

I am not even fertile currently

How do you know? Do you take an ovulation test every single day? Do you take it at the right time of the day, sometimes even twice. Sorry, but you don't know that for a fact. And what if you are not fertile today, but end up ovulating within the next 9-72 hours. You can definitely become pregnant! Even women who are very regular sometimes drop an egg early or late due to stress. Why on earth would you have unprotected sex with him?? A vaccine does not protect you against STDs, nor does it protect him. It also does not prevent you from becoming pregnant.

So what if he asked for unprotected - you say NOOOO. who cares if he says it feels better. You are a very stupid woman if you have unprotected sex.

Unless you are a prostitute, why would you agree to this?

He said he wants it because of missing it and of feeling way better

Unless you are a prostitute, why would you agree to this?

I thought it is like the opposite.. They don't because of STD risk

There are plenty of men out there who would gladly have sex with a condom. How do you know this dude doesn't have a STD?

My eggleaders don't functionate I am chronical ill. Do have a schild wish.

I thought it is like the opposite.. They don't because of STD risk

What was the opposite? I don't understand.

You are at risk for STDs if you have unprotected sex.

Only prostitutes do everything a man wants to do. You should not have unprotected sex JUST because he wants it.

I told him we shouls both do a test after about six months

My eggleaders don't functionate I am chronical ill. Do have a schild wish.

You can still get an STD. My friend was told she cannot have children. She has endometriosis and had one ovary removed due to cancer. She DID get pregnant. She was surprised. it was a one in a million chance. She has a daughter now.

Also I felt in love with him

I told him we shouls both do a test after about six months

You should not have unprotected sex, test or no test, unless you want a risk of getting pregnant.

What if he has hiv/aids Gardasil won't help with that. You have an iud (shield?). Prostitutes get extra money if the guy wants unprotected. What's in this for you except a whole bunch of stds?

vaccin. It is he who asked for kissing and unprotected

Also I felt in love with him

After only two dates???

My topic question was why he doesn't respond

He lives about an hour from here

I don't want to bother him with getting pregnant but we both have a childwish. He is almost 40 and I am 30.

I didn't know. I think he wants because he isn't at risk if it is me.

My topic question was why he doesn't respond

Only he can answer that. Maybe he is at work.

He lives about an hour from here

why does that matter? 2 dates is still not enough to get to know someone and too soon for sex. In my area, living an hour apart is nothing. Everyone drives.

I didn't know. I think he wants because he isn't at risk if it is me.

You are both at risk. You don't know his history and he does not know yours. And you can get pregnant.