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    had two dates w/ this guy but I feel ignored; confused about it;he planned a 3th

    We had intercourse 2nd time and he asked we could kiss but I agreed next time also unprotected sex after many months waiting and blood test
    But when I test or P.M. him about a vaccin I want me to get in order to let it work out then he doesn't react

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    Why do you want unprotected sex after 2 dates and what vaccine?
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    We had intercourse 2nd time and he asked we could kiss but I agreed next time also unprotected sex after many months waiting and blood test
    But when I test or P.M. him about a vaccin I want me to get in order to let it work out then he doesn't react

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wiseman2 [Register to see the link]
    Why do you want unprotected sex after 2 dates and what vaccine?
    Are you trying to get pregnant?

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    Gardasil vaccin.
    Probably tomorrow
    It is he who asked for kissing and unprotected

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    I am not even fertile currently

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    He said he wants it because of missing it and of feeling way better
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    How do you know you're "not fertile"?

    And you barely know this guy, but you agreed to unprotected sex because he wanted it and he said it feels better?

    Why are you willing to put your life at risk for someone you've dated twice?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Belgian girl [Register to see the link]
    I am not even fertile currently
    How do you know? Do you take an ovulation test every single day? Do you take it at the right time of the day, sometimes even twice. Sorry, but you don't know that for a fact. And what if you are not fertile today, but end up ovulating within the next 9-72 hours. You can definitely become pregnant! Even women who are very regular sometimes drop an egg early or late due to stress. Why on earth would you have unprotected sex with him?? A vaccine does not protect you against STDs, nor does it protect him. It also does not prevent you from becoming pregnant.

    So what if he asked for unprotected - you say NOOOO. who cares if he says it feels better. You are a very stupid woman if you have unprotected sex.

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    Unless you are a prostitute, why would you agree to this?
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    He said he wants it because of missing it and of feeling way better

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wiseman2 [Register to see the link]
    Unless you are a prostitute, why would you agree to this?
    I thought it is like the opposite.. They don't because of STD risk

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