We dated for about 3 years. We both work in a call center in different departments. She is a supervisor and I work in special accounts. I'm also an artist; still up and coming, but my name has gotten out there. I have done 15 art opening in 9 different museums, I have my work in 7 art galleries, and self published a special edition book that presold 5,000 copies in 18 days. Last year I made $35,000 as a part time artist.
The entire time she has known me I have lived in a custom class C RV as I travel on the east coast a lot. I also have a 700 sq' (house) art studio on 3 acres of property. 7 months ago she asked if we could empty out the bed room of my art studio and if she could move in. She had been living in a cheap apartment. We just started on the building of our house this month.
With her living in my studio are relationship changed for the better. There were a few stupid moments over the next few months and she became pregnant with twins.
We had dinner with her parents and I asked how they felt about us getting married. They told me it should of happens years ago and I had there blessing.
We decided to set it up like an engagement party for family and friends. It was truly our wedding. There was 10 family members and friends that were in on it. We had to do a little bit of last minute tricking to get everything done, but it worked. After her dad walked her down the aisle my dad got up and handed him a shotgun and not many people got what that was for...
We set up 3 gift registry's at different places as we have to furnish a new house. Plenty of different price ranges and types of stuff we need. We did not ask for any furniture or any large items as we have to store everything till the house is built.
The day after the wedding her parents showed a lot of resentment and her mom made it known how she wanted to plan her wedding. In 45 days of finding out she was pregnant we planed our new house, finishes, interior decor, and our wedding. We both wanted a simple wedding, we know her parents were not in a good place to help financially, we did not want others to get involved and for it to get out of hand, and with building our house we were on a tight budget.
The next week her parents went out and bought us full bedroom set, full dining room setup, everything for the baby's room, and a full living room set. We know nothing about it until we get a call to set up a delivery. They are mad that we do not like what they picked out. Yes they made some good choices, but the stuff dose not go with the finishes we picked out and the style we want for our house.
Her parents live about an hour away and they blow off our dinner plans about 5 minutes before we were going to meet last week.
For the past year her dad and I would email a few times a week and now he hardly ever responds.
Her parents have gotten to the point that they are stressing her out and she has talked about changing her number because of the crap they text her.
We have talked about this a few times, but don't know how to handle this. She asked me to post this on the net for help.
Were in need of help dose anyone have any advise?