This is your father.. Even your partner shouldn't be so 'expectant' of you.
Show's his 'lack' of respect towards you.. which is awful :/.
You do not owe him this.. it's HIS attempt of continued control over you. Don't play the game.
You ARE entitled a Life! No need for him to be so nosy or involved.. and he NEEDS to be shown this.
He has issues!
Since you have moved out ( he's married still?).. mom have nothing to say here?..... You're outta there... keep moving on.
He is acting like a kid.. ignore.