justshine1 Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 So I just started seeing someone. ... he came for a sleep over for the first time. I took a shower before bed. And went pee before l showed....I'm on my period. So I took my tampon out in the toilet. Stood up. Took my clothes out and got in the shower. Toilet seat I closed and put my clothing on top. Anyways shortly after...he went into the washroom and I heard a flush....him use the washroom and a flush again. Which makes me think omgggggg I forgot to flush?! When we got out he looked a bit weird. I even asked him.... shoot did I forget to flush? He said why did you pee before the shower.... I said yes. He said.. I dont know I didn't notice . If that happened omg I'm so embarrassed and that's disgusting. Maybe it was so Grose he didn't tell me to spare me. Or maybe I did flush and I'm worried about nothing? But ....later that night we kissed a lot in bed. He didn't even really try to touch my down stairs area...and I never did say I was on my period. Mine you we haven't even had sex yet. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 The thing I would be concerned about is backing up your toilet. You should NEVER flush tampons. I'm sure he did see it, but I'm certain it was not a big deal. I can understand how you feel, though. Next time throw away! Link to comment
j.man Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 Periods aren't exactly a secret. He's aware you leak blood once a month. In fact, if/when you two become active, he's going to come to appreciate very much when you get them. As for not touching you down there... yeah. When my gal's on Lady Time, my hand steers clear. Bear in mind I'm not above sex during a period, but the foreplay stays above the waist. Also, it's very common for women to not want to have sex during their periods. Especially considering you two haven't had sex yet, it was probably a pretty safe assumption on his part not to assume that night would be the night. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 It's best when you start dating and having sleepovers to be comfortable with someone. Maybe he didn't think you were responsive or noticed how nervous/flustered you were. Forget about it and just keep dating and getting to know each other. Guys know what periods are, so relax and be natural..So I just started seeing someone. ... he came for a sleep over for the first time. He didn't even really try to touch my down stairs area...and I never did say I was on my period. Mine you we haven't even had sex yet. Link to comment
justshine1 Posted January 17, 2017 Author Share Posted January 17, 2017 But I asked.....about the toilet and he didn't tell me. Do you think he would have told me had it been not flushed and gross in there? Also yea...I think many guys on first sleep overs thing they are going to get laid...he mentioned he wanted to...but I never did it. So I don't know if he knows I was on it or not. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 * spits dinner all over the screen As that bird from that film sang ...*let it go Link to comment
nutbrownhare Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 One of the things I've discovered about most men (bless 'em!) is that they're far more matter-of-fact about periods and the related paraphernalia than we might fear... they also enjoy natural processes like burping and farting (both forms of male bonding and creative expression - just the sort of thing women try to hide) and have no inhibitions about getting their todgers out in public and answering a call of nature behind the wheelie bin. All the guys I know regard periods as something natural, and think nothing of it when confronted with the evidence. From your guy's response, I think you remembered to flush anyway. Even if you hadn't, I doubt he'd be bothered. Relax and enjoy your new relationship! Link to comment
Unreasonable Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 I have a 3 girls (and a wife), and if he has sisters I can ASSURE you he's seen worse... Link to comment
Almira23 Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 He probably just flushed it and went about his business. Periods really aren't a big deal. Men are definitely aware of them and its not something that you should be embarrassed or worried about. I know quite a few men, who have absolutely no problem having sex with their wives/girlfriends when it's that time of the month. Relax... Link to comment
Jibralta Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 So I just started seeing someone. ... he came for a sleep over for the first time. I took a shower before bed. And went pee before l showed....I'm on my period. So I took my tampon out in the toilet. Stood up. Took my clothes out and got in the shower. Toilet seat I closed and put my clothing on top. Anyways shortly after...he went into the washroom and I heard a flush....him use the washroom and a flush again. Which makes me think omgggggg I forgot to flush?! When we got out he looked a bit weird. I even asked him.... shoot did I forget to flush? He said why did you pee before the shower.... I said yes. He said.. I dont know I didn't notice . If that happened omg I'm so embarrassed and that's disgusting. Maybe it was so Grose he didn't tell me to spare me. Or maybe I did flush and I'm worried about nothing? But ....later that night we kissed a lot in bed. He didn't even really try to touch my down stairs area...and I never did say I was on my period. Mine you we haven't even had sex yet. Heehee Oh lord. I could go on about embarrassing things that I've done. The two-flush thing makes me think he saw it. Who flushes a closed toilet? Personally, I would admit that I saw it if I'd seen it. I would personally prefer to know. But some people are more delicate about things like that. Doesn't mean he can't handle it. I think you'll be ok. Link to comment
journeynow Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 The thing I would be concerned about is backing up your toilet. You should NEVER flush tampons. I'm sure he did see it, but I'm certain it was not a big deal. I can understand how you feel, though. Next time throw away! Ditto, for both. (Nix flushing tampons. They are deadly for septic systems. And why send them to water treatment plants? Better off in a landfill.) Link to comment
Deejmonster Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 Brush it off. No biggie. We know it's natural and it's nothing to be upset about. It's embarrassing to you but it's not something that would bother me if I came across it Link to comment
justshine1 Posted January 17, 2017 Author Share Posted January 17, 2017 Thnx.... To me it's Grose is anyone saw that in the toilet . Let alone a guy I lottery just started to date and on out first sleep over hahah. Like I think he'd be like ew why didn't she flush . Fawk I hope I flushed. Link to comment
Heavy Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 Did you think maybe he went to the toilet and had to do a crap???? He flushed looked over his shoulder and seen (as it does happen from time to time) his business didn't go go as it was a floater... Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 Did you think maybe he went to the toilet and had to do a crap???? He flushed looked over his shoulder and seen (as it does happen from time to time) his business didn't go go as it was a floater... well this thread ended up in the sh1t Link to comment
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