I was on the craigslist m2m section and saw genital pics of what looked like my husband (it looked alarmingly similar to my husbands). The stats on the post matched my husband as well (height, town, age, married status). I haven't asked him anything about it. I wanted to get more proof that it is him. I'm 95% certain it is him. I also remember that he "trimmed" down there around the time the post was made (after a really long time of not trimming). Around that time we also didn't have sex for almost a month even though I tried initiating it several times.
Our relationship is great, but there was a part of me that always wondered if he was gay. He used to be very attentive to me in bed, but I've always thought that there was no passion and romance in the relationship. I've brought it up with him as well but the passion aspect of it hasn't changed much. I'd settled because I loved him, and I loved what I had with him. He's my best friend and I've never had someone like him in my life.
If you ask me why I was on the m2m section of craigslist, it's because I've had an ex that I caught talking to guys online. I later found out he found these men on the m2m section of craigslist. I've always kept an eye on that section since then just because I find it scary that so many married men are on there having discreet double lives.
I'm at a loss for what to do and wanted some advice. At this point I'm just waiting to get more proof before confronting him. We have been together for 5 years. No kids (by choice).