Missy14 Posted January 5, 2017 Share Posted January 5, 2017 The title says it all. This is too random but my newly wed ex bf from a long time ago wants to add me on Facebook. I don't have feelings for this ex anymore but seeing his pictures with his wife having a fabulous life made me feel sorry about my own life. I feel like my life is hopeless and I'm never going to find the one for me. Link to comment
gebaird Posted January 5, 2017 Share Posted January 5, 2017 Definitely don't accept that request. How happy can he really be if he is reaching out to his ex? Anyone can look good on Facebook but have serious problems beneath the surface. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted January 5, 2017 Share Posted January 5, 2017 No ,that's just an invitation to drama leave it and don't add . Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 5, 2017 Share Posted January 5, 2017 No no no You don't need his updates and photos and nonsense in your life. Unfriend, delete and block. There's nothing in this for you, he's showboating.my newly wed ex bf from a long time ago wants to add me on Facebook. Link to comment
Missy14 Posted January 5, 2017 Author Share Posted January 5, 2017 I didn't add him. I asked our mutual friend why he would add me. She said he's probably doing it to show off how happy he is with his life and his new wife. He looks really happy in the pictures (that he made public), I say good for him. It's just so random that he adds me. It made me depressed, I'm not going to lie though Link to comment
Missy14 Posted January 5, 2017 Author Share Posted January 5, 2017 Also am I in the wrong to get pissed off at our mutual friend. She keeps saying "the wife is too beautiful and there's no way she's going to be jealous of you. he's so happy with her, they even got married twice". Link to comment
Seraphim Posted January 5, 2017 Share Posted January 5, 2017 Also am I in the wrong to get pissed off at our mutual friend. She keeps saying "the wife is too beautiful and there's no way she's going to be jealous of you. he's so happy with her, they even got married twice". The mutual friend is a waste of space, ditch them. There's a British word for exactly that kind of person but I can't use it . Link to comment
gebaird Posted January 5, 2017 Share Posted January 5, 2017 Also am I in the wrong to get pissed off at our mutual friend. She keeps saying "the wife is too beautiful and there's no way she's going to be jealous of you. he's so happy with her, they even got married twice". Yeah, her words were pretty hurtful. I'd recommend asking her to please not talk about him again. Link to comment
Missy14 Posted January 5, 2017 Author Share Posted January 5, 2017 I don't have feelings for this ex anymore but I just find it insensitive. I'm still suffering from low self esteem from my recent breakup and hearing those things from my friend made me feel lower than I'm already feeling right now. I feel like everyone has a better life than me. Link to comment
Heavy Posted January 5, 2017 Share Posted January 5, 2017 Yeah, her words were pretty hurtful. I'd recommend asking her to please not talk about him again. Why ask you just tell her and if she was a true friend she would not have bought it up in the first place. Best to focus on yourself, the chick who last cheated on me is now engaged to the guy she cheated with. You know what I did kept on living my life and not give a F. Link to comment
Missy14 Posted January 5, 2017 Author Share Posted January 5, 2017 I wont tell the friend that what she said bothered me because I know how she is. She's going to turn it around and tell me instead that I'm insecure and jealous. I will just keep my distance and probably don't talk to her anymore. When does this feeling of hopelessness go away? Link to comment
surfdiva Posted January 5, 2017 Share Posted January 5, 2017 Also am I in the wrong to get pissed off at our mutual friend. She keeps saying "the wife is too beautiful and there's no way she's going to be jealous of you. he's so happy with her, they even got married twice". The hell? That was completely rude! I'd probably block him, but I'm pretty block happy when it comes to FB. If I don't want to see someone, I reallly don't want to randomly see them if they're tagged in a mutual friends photo. I'm really sorry your "friend" said that to you, I'm sure you're just as beautiful (if not more) and she was a putz for saying that. Link to comment
Heavy Posted January 5, 2017 Share Posted January 5, 2017 I'm really sorry your "friend" said that to you, I'm sure you're just as beautiful (if not more) and she was a putz for saying that. Beauty is not just what is on the outside Link to comment
Sportster2005 Posted January 6, 2017 Share Posted January 6, 2017 Also am I in the wrong to get pissed off at our mutual friend. She keeps saying "the wife is too beautiful and there's no way she's going to be jealous of you. he's so happy with her, they even got married twice". Doesn't sound like good friend material to me. An insensitive loud mouth. Ditch her. You're never in the wrong for the way you feel. Link to comment
force Posted January 6, 2017 Share Posted January 6, 2017 Very interesting. If he was sooooooo happy with his new wife, then why is he trying to friend you? It sounds like you broke up with him and now he wants revenge? If that is so then he is not over you not matter how hot his wife is, or maybe he thinks you're hotter. Now if you both have been broken up for a long time and he friends you it's less suspicious on his part. Link to comment
Missy14 Posted January 6, 2017 Author Share Posted January 6, 2017 Very interesting. If he was sooooooo happy with his new wife, then why is he trying to friend you? It sounds like you broke up with him and now he wants revenge? If that is so then he is not over you not matter how hot his wife is, or maybe he thinks you're hotter. Now if you both have been broken up for a long time and he friends you it's less suspicious on his part. He probably wants to rub it in my face that he has a better life than me. I only dated him for 8 months and he was the one who broke up with me and I accepted it with no drama, so revenge from him should be out of the question. Also the break up happened a long time ago so I have no doubt he's way over me by now. He's doing it to show off. Link to comment
Missy14 Posted January 6, 2017 Author Share Posted January 6, 2017 Oops I remember he messaged me 2 years ago on whatsapp and I didn't reply to his messages. The year before that, he emailed me. I also didn't reply. I probably hurt his ego a little bit because of that. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted January 6, 2017 Share Posted January 6, 2017 Why not eliminate the problem by simply blocking him? Link to comment
Missy14 Posted January 6, 2017 Author Share Posted January 6, 2017 Why not eliminate the problem by simply blocking him? I already blocked his Facebook Link to comment
RomeoOh Posted January 6, 2017 Share Posted January 6, 2017 He is either showing off or trying to eventually get a booty call. Do yourself the favor and block him. Should not be friends with an ex who willimg to rub their relationship in your face especially if you feelings are involved. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted January 6, 2017 Share Posted January 6, 2017 I already blocked his Facebook Great, but how is he able to contact you otherwise? Link to comment
Missy14 Posted January 6, 2017 Author Share Posted January 6, 2017 He is either showing off or trying to eventually get a booty call. Do yourself the favor and block him. Should not be friends with an ex who willimg to rub their relationship in your face especially if you feelings are involved. All true. Thank you. Link to comment
Missy14 Posted January 6, 2017 Author Share Posted January 6, 2017 Great, but how is he able to contact you otherwise? I only blocked him after he tried to add me. I didn't know his facebook account to block him prior. Link to comment
ParisPaulette Posted January 9, 2017 Share Posted January 9, 2017 Oh gee, that guy's poor new wife! He's racing out to stock his FB page with exes right after he gets married? Yeah, something is wrong with that picture for sure. Good on blocking him, carry on. Might want to block the frenemy too. It sounds like she was egging you on hoping to stir up drama between you and the new wife for her own enjoyment. Plus just mean comments, so yup that's a frenemy right there. They need to get dumped faster than last week's sour milk. Link to comment
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