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    Ex bf wants to add me on Facebook

    The title says it all. This is too random but my newly wed ex bf from a long time ago wants to add me on Facebook. I don't have feelings for this ex anymore but seeing his pictures with his wife having a fabulous life made me feel sorry about my own life. I feel like my life is hopeless and I'm never going to find the one for me.

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    Definitely don't accept that request. How happy can he really be if he is reaching out to his ex? Anyone can look good on Facebook but have serious problems beneath the surface.

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    No ,that's just an invitation to drama leave it and don't add .

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    No no no You don't need his updates and photos and nonsense in your life. Unfriend, delete and block. There's nothing in this for you, he's showboating.
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    my newly wed ex bf from a long time ago wants to add me on Facebook.

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    I didn't add him. I asked our mutual friend why he would add me. She said he's probably doing it to show off how happy he is with his life and his new wife. He looks really happy in the pictures (that he made public), I say good for him. It's just so random that he adds me. It made me depressed, I'm not going to lie though

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    Also am I in the wrong to get pissed off at our mutual friend. She keeps saying "the wife is too beautiful and there's no way she's going to be jealous of you. he's so happy with her, they even got married twice".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Missy14 [Register to see the link]
    Also am I in the wrong to get pissed off at our mutual friend. She keeps saying "the wife is too beautiful and there's no way she's going to be jealous of you. he's so happy with her, they even got married twice".
    The mutual friend is a waste of space, ditch them. There's a British word for exactly that kind of person but I can't use it .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Missy14 [Register to see the link]
    Also am I in the wrong to get pissed off at our mutual friend. She keeps saying "the wife is too beautiful and there's no way she's going to be jealous of you. he's so happy with her, they even got married twice".
    Yeah, her words were pretty hurtful. I'd recommend asking her to please not talk about him again.

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    I don't have feelings for this ex anymore but I just find it insensitive. I'm still suffering from low self esteem from my recent breakup and hearing those things from my friend made me feel lower than I'm already feeling right now. I feel like everyone has a better life than me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gebaird [Register to see the link]
    Yeah, her words were pretty hurtful. I'd recommend asking her to please not talk about him again.
    Why ask you just tell her and if she was a true friend she would not have bought it up in the first place.

    Best to focus on yourself, the chick who last cheated on me is now engaged to the guy she cheated with. You know what I did kept on living my life and not give a F.

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