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Thread: Just came back from a first date. Why do I always doubt myself after?

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    Let us know how it went! Good luck!

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    Originally Posted by mustlovedogs
    Put yourself in her shoes, what would you say besides thank you?

    I think it's reasonable to have left your text alone
    Well isn't it a sign that she didn't respond to it? Usually the girls I've dated at least were polite and responded to it. A couple of my female friends said this wasn't a good sign but still worth taking a shot at asking for a second date

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    And men think women overthink things

    Not a sign. Just ask her out again. She expressed interest

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    Originally Posted by mustlovedogs
    And men think women overthink things

    Not a sign. Just ask her out again. She expressed interest
    Lol I never said I thought like the prototypical guy that's for sure. I do appreciate the feedback

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    Plus I was pretty aggressive in terms of setting up the date. I only sent 3-4 messages in total before getting her # and suggesting a date

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    Originally Posted by mgsportsfan252
    Plus I was pretty aggressive in terms of setting up the date. I only sent 3-4 messages in total before getting her # and suggesting a date
    I think you mean assertive. And not wasting either of your time engaging in endless texting, before you had the chance to see in person if there's chemistry.

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    Well it's been sent. Let's see what happens

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    Well it's been about an hour and so far crickets. Not losing hope just yet but not looking good.

    Good news is I just got messaged by another girl so that's a plus

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    Originally Posted by mgsportsfan252
    Well isn't it a sign that she didn't respond to it? Usually the girls I've dated at least were polite and responded to it. A couple of my female friends said this wasn't a good sign but still worth taking a shot at asking for a second date
    I agree with your friends.

    Since you're into texting, there's tons of stuff on the internet on how to effectively text to get a response! Be creative, out of the ordinary, engage her!

    Try and stay away from the usual "I had a great time, hope you got home safe" or "good morning, hope you have a great day" type of stuff.

    Boring (sorry). I wouldn't know how to respond to that either, although if I really dug the guy and felt the "sparks," I would respond with something.

    Probably with a funny or something..... just to keep it going, keep the connection alive (assuming there was a connection).

    That's what we do when we really like a guy, we don't just ignore a text.

    But hell you have nothing to lose by sending her that additional text asking her out. But two texts, no response = Next.

    Let us know when you hear back!!

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    Originally Posted by mgsportsfan252
    Well it's been about an hour and so far crickets. Not losing hope just yet but not looking good.

    Good news is I just got messaged by another girl so that's a plus
    When one door closes, another one opens!

    Not that the first one is definitely closed, but now you have another door to walk through which is always good.

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