annonymous1012 Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 So there is this a girl who works at this place. I've been in there twice now and she is a stunner. Its one of those girls who you have to look twice at and are like "WOW" Anyways she was talking to me about a product they sell and helping me pick the best one for me it felt like she was being flirtatious towards me. Thinking back to it she's probally just trying to flog me this product. But then there is a part of me thinks she could actually be flrting with me. I've got home and I cant stop thinking about her and regretting not asking for her number. This is where i need YOUR help! How should I go about this. Should I just ask her for her number straight up or should i make up a conversation and then ask.(I know nothing about her, single age, name etc) I know what it's like when you're at work you dont wont to be bothered by begs haha. So Im in a predicament with myself on what to do and say. Link to comment
gebaird Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 Ask for her number. It might hurt if she says no, but she sounds like a girl who's worth the risk. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 Sounds like you'll be doing a lot of shopping and spending. Just asking for her number is kinda creepy. she was talking to me about a product they sell and helping me pick the best one for me. Thinking back to it she's probally just trying to flog me this product. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 Your first instincts are probably correct that she was being nice to sell the product. That is why attractive people model products. If you really want to ask her out you need to be fearless and a little cocky. Do not start off with an apology like "Sorry to bother you" Be brave and do this. Walk up to her when she is not with a customer, tell her hi and immediately mention that you really enjoyed talking to her yesterday and would like to know if she would like to get a drink and get to know each other better. Don't hang around in the store watching her, just walk right up to her and ask. You are not there to do more shopping you are there to ask her out so you have to go for it. The worst thing that could happen is that she says no thank you. Going up cold is often times easier because they are really a stranger so who cares right? If she says no then you never have to see her again. Lost Link to comment
happyfrank Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 Conversation first. Ask for her name and give proper greeting. If she is striking conversation with you. Good sign. Ask her if she is seeing anymore. If she is says no. Ask her out. Exchange numbers after. Watch Layan Bubbly videos on youtube. She explains female body language. It's going to help you during the conversation if she likes you just by body language. Good luck. Link to comment
Edmund Exley Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 The fact you're here asking means you probably don't have "The Game" to close this kinda deal Link to comment
happyfrank Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 The fact you're here asking means you probably don't have "The Game" to close this kinda deal That's why he has us to help. Link to comment
Zaphod Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 Yeah it's a bit awkward asking them at their work because of the power imbalance. Any chance you might catch her somewhere outside of work? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 Will he will have a closet full of Lush products just like a kitchen full of flapjacks? it's a bit awkward asking them at their work because of the power imbalance.Any chance you might catch her somewhere outside of work? Link to comment
Edmund Exley Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 That's why he has us to help. Cant teach game Link to comment
Zaphod Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 Will he will have a closet full of Lush products just like a kitchen full of flapjacks? I've still got them, man. They went stale enough for me to fix my roof with them. Every cloud, man......(including nine). Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 I've still got them, man. They went stale enough for me to fix my roof with them. Every cloud, man......(including nine). ] Link to comment
Zaphod Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 ] Good times - pity that series is over, no? Apparently a new series of Vikings is coming out though. I've been catching up on The Wire recently as well. Link to comment
Edmund Exley Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 "I can see it all now, this is gonna be just like last summer. You fell in love with that girl at the Fotomat, you bought forty dollars worth of f**kin' film, and you never even talked to her. You don't even own a camera." - Mike Damon, Fast Times at Ridgemont High Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 You got to have a "I don't give a shoot attitude" and go for it. OP Let us know how it goes and good luck Lost Link to comment
Edmund Exley Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 You got to have a "I don't give a shoot attitude" and go for it. OP Let us know how it goes and good luck Lost That's my point about can't teach game. You can tell people what the attitude should be, but the attitude is inside. I learned young that being rejected didnt hurt so bad, and that if I wanted to catch a hot chick, I had to fish for hot chicks and not be afraid to go home empty handed. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 If your closet looks like this, it's time to finally make your move. ] Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 I have taught it to a few but it was not easy. They let fear control their actions far to much. That is why jerks do so well, they don't care who they offend or bother. OP This one time throw all caution to the wind and go in there with a mission to follow what I told you to do. Look at it like an experiment and see what happens. This could be your best Holiday season yet! Lost Link to comment
RainyCoast Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 ugh i'm still sad about Cake girl. it was like watching a series with a lot of back and forth you knew was worth it because they'll hook up in the end...and then...zaph is doing roofwork with flapjacks.... how many karma soaps do you really want op. ask her out. Link to comment
Zaphod Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 ugh i'm still sad about Cake girl. it was like watching a series with a lot of back and forth you knew was worth it because they'll hook up in the end...and then...zaph is doing roofwork with flapjacks.... how many karma soaps do you really want op. ask her out. She's gone now, as well. I don't see her around anymore and she's not working in the shop. But at least I had a go, so I'm not left with that "I should have had a go" feeling. Man that was a difficult one. Different language, 0.5 second time windows, fook... All seems so far away now. Wonder whether she remembers me? Funnily enough, she always continued to say hello on her way past in this kind of demure way, even after the event, but in the end I guess I grew a bit tired of it, to be honest. I get bored easy. I think the general message is you've gotta have a go, just don't make it wildly inappropriate, so in other words, maybe not while they're at work. But then again, that's not a hard and fast rule, it just reduces your chance of success. One thing I noticed was that by taking on a seemingly impossible task with cake girl, the subsequent encounters with women seem a lot easier in comparison. So there's something to be said for attempting the seemingly impossible. Link to comment
Zaphod Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 If your closet looks like this, it's time to finally make your move. ]</p><p> </p><p> Or like this :</p><p> </p><p> [img] 9GcT6vzWpA4NuabEzAYxhUlypZDq1XdP9G9E80bYHis3t-gUhT2ud Link to comment
ParisPaulette Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 I like happy frank's recommendations. And if she says no respect the no, tell her it's fine, and switch back to talking about the product. A simple conversation, establishing if she's seeing anyone, then being respectful regardless of her answer is the way to go. Because even if she doesn't say yes, you never know if she has a cute friend or little sister and at some time mentions you were really cool, a true gentleman when you asked her out and she turned you down. I know two guys who scored dates, one a wife, exactly that way. Asked a girl out, she said no, but had a friend they thought would be interested. So yeah, there's that too. It's called never burn your bridges, something the guys who flip out and get nasty when a woman says no to them just don't' seem to get as a concept. Yes, she very well may be simply flogging the product with a bit of side flirting to sell it better. Establish if she's with anyone first and foremost, nothing is worse than some guy asking you out who didn't even bother to find out if you're already with someone else to begin with. Link to comment
JaggerJim Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 It's a tough one. Do many men hang out at "lush"? or is that more of a girl thing, I have no idea. If you go back in, she may get suspicious. The only other way I think you could talk to her, would be to return the product and ask her how to use it, because you don't know how too. You need a way in. Link to comment
DancingFool Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 ...heh....guys you are forgetting body language..... When you think she is hot and you have the hots for her, you might as well have a flashing neon sign on your forehead that says "me liiiiiiiiiikeeeeee!!!!!!!" The rest is just you working up the courage to toddle up and ask for my name and number. The longer it takes you to do that the less sexy it becomes.....'cause I already see your intentions a mile away and have already made up my mind on whether it's a yes or a no. By dodling too much you can turn a yes into a no. So when people are telling you just walk up to her when she is not with a customer and get to the point, they are correct. This is a balls out situation. Just do it. You are both strangers and you are both going off one thing - looks. You think she is hot, she either thinks the same about you or not. Only one way to find out and absolutely nothing to lose. Either you are exactly where you are right now or you've got a hot date for the weekend. Stay same or gain something awesome (hopefully). Hey, you never know.....you might go on that date, she starts talking and you run away screaming....lmao...... Link to comment
DonnaSophia Posted December 6, 2016 Share Posted December 6, 2016 That's why he has us to help. But we can't go with him to ask, and certainly can't go for coffee with them. Link to comment
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