How can my boyfriend get over my past through a practical solution?

I had been physcl in my past bt he did not break my virgnty i said everything to my boyfrnd bt he is not geetin it out of his head he is alwys saying that i want to be the first man to me to be physcl with and he says i will be with u bt only when u find a solution that can be physcl done like breakng some1s virgnty our something that can make my heart into pieces plz i cant live without him he alwys cries when my past comes in his mind plz help me to find a physcl soltn 😢😢 its very urgnt plz help me i dont want to lose him plzzzzzz i beg each n every 1 to help me in my prblm

He needs to grow up. This is 2016, not 1920. There's no solution. You tell him he either accept you as you are or not date you at all. You have nothing to apologise or feel bad about.

Is this a cultural issue as well as him behaving like an antequated Victorian? Either way you have nothing to apologise for. He needs to grow up, accept you for who you are and be done with it. That's it.

He says that he wants me bt i wnt some practicl situation i gave my 500% to this relation i cried i begged each n every1 who can help me he only says me one thing that if u love me find a solution n then i will be with u 😭😭

I'm not quite understanding what you're asking.... Sorry. Are you saying that he will only be with you if you sleep with him? Tell him to get lost. No man/boy is worth begging over. If he can't be with you for who you are then you should walk away now. Sorry if that's not what you want to hear, but that is a not a healthy relationship to be in.

He wants to get physcl with girl😣 Which can make me feel that what i done in my past was wrong he says that i have cheated on him

He wants to get physcl with girl Which can make me feel that what i done in my past was wrong he says that i have cheated on him

So...he wants to sleep with another girl so that you can be "even"?!

He wants to get physcl with girl😣 Which can make me feel that what i done in my past was wrong he says that i have cheated on him

With another girl or with you? How can you have cheated on him if you're only with him? He's talking rubbish. Look, I don't know how long you've been together, but you're clearly not happy. Whatever you've done in your past is just that - THE PAST. It is literally none of his business. If you don't want to get physical with him, then don't. IT IS YOUR RIGHT TO SAY NO to this boy. He shouldn't be pressuring you and if he does THEN WALK AWAY. He's not worth it. I promise.

Thank you soo much u r really vry helpful

Yes so i can feel guilty on what i have done

Cheated in the sense he will not be the frst to whom i m physcl with

I have the perfect, practical solution:

Break up with this loser.

Seriously. He is an abusive jerk. Don't allow him to treat you like this. You can do way better!!

You sound like a woman of quality. And we women of quality don't tolerate bottom-feeders. Remind yourself of that.