Littlebitshy Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 I recently met a girl on Tinder and we've been speaking on fb. But tbh I'm quite shy and scared to push it so I have boring conversation. Im scared she's gonna lose interest. What should I do? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 She's not on Tinder to find a text buddy, she'd looking for a date.. Ask her to meet. Im scared she's gonna lose interest. ] Link to comment
Scoe141 Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 What do you enjoy doing? Coffee? Painting? Try and pick something you enjoy, which will hopefully break the ice and offset any nervousness. She's just a human. She puts her pants on the same way you do. No need to be scared. But enjoy it! You never know where it's going to lead. What is it your scared of? Link to comment
Littlebitshy Posted September 20, 2016 Author Share Posted September 20, 2016 Im not too sure tbh. I thinks its a fear of rejection Link to comment
SkellyWoozle Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 Well, unless you ask her, you're not going to find out! Go for it... she might even say yes! Good luck X Link to comment
Iggy5129 Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 The point of online dating is to eliminate that "do they like me" factor. She obviously is interested or she wouldn't have matched with you. Ask her to meet up for coffee. You've got nothing to lose. Link to comment
gp11a Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 Agreed - you don't have to "push it" but she is probably waiting for you to ask her to do something. The longer you wait to ask, the more likely she will lose interest. Also, the longer you talk online, the more topics you've gone through that could have been discussed in person and you build up expectations... (i.e. You get along VERY well online, but not so much in person... which leads to disappointment) Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 Ask her to meet up for coffee. You've got nothing to lose. ] Link to comment
Scoe141 Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 If it helps, I have never regretted being rejected. My only regrets are the missed opportunities which resulted from me being afraid. We got you. Good luck. Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.