confused?

(i am bisexual, and i am female, just clearing that up.) alright, so about a year ago i met this girl online. it didn't take me long to fall for her. she's honestly the best. we finally got to dating on march second. on april 24th she dumped me over a petty fight. 4 weeks later she started dating one of my friends. so i started dating someone i thought i liked right after. but i was wrong. im not over my ex. i love her alot. but i dont want to hurt my current lover, and she is in a relationship. help? than you for reading.

If you're not over your ex, you're not going to be able to give 100% to this new person. Someone might get hurt either way.

I told someone I was dating last year I wasn't over my ex, barely talked in between after that, and we're catching up soon. I think they'd respect you telling them that versus dragging something out and hurting them more, and maybe something could still be there when you're healed (or at least, more healed).