24 year age gap; clearing some stuff up

So in my previous post I think some people were confused.

my family does know about my boyfriend. they've known for almost 2 years.

I don't know if people care to read stories about my experiences or whatever.

but if whoever does let me know what you wanna know and I'll try my best to give a decent answer.

What do your family actually say about the matter?

Well when my aunt found out she was pissed and was like tell your mom or I have to do I was like okay you do it . ( my mom had found out about him whe we were dating for only 2 months and I told her we broke up) but then I ended up writing my mom a note and telling her everything and she didn't talk to me for 3 months and it was really hard cause I'm super close with my family . When everything calmed down with my mom she basically just said I don't wanna hear about it and same with my aunt my aunt never cut me off though so I was still allowed to see all the kids and my siblings . But yeah now we just don't talk about it but they know what's up

What do your family actually say about the matter?

So, how old are you and how old is your bf?

Now, I'm 21 and he's 45

So, how old are you and how old is your bf?

Aful... Personally I wouldn't call you a fool. Impressed with older men... Yeah. I can go along with that.

One thing you should really consider... There's no way this 45 year old man can keep up with a 21 year old young woman. Not a chance... You're going to give him a heart attack.

Anyway... Whatever you decide... I wish you the best.

Him too.