Ex wants to catch up after more than 3 years - wants to meet up for a weekend.

So Im Canadian and my ex is from France. We met in my hometown during uni and went out for about 4 years total. We dealt with some long distance apart during then.

He graduated first and moved to the Netherlands for a great job. And we stayed long distance for about a year with only a 2 month visit during that time (I went to visit).

Anyways, he ended it cuz of the distance and whatnot. Overall, our breakup wasn't too bad.

We've added one another on fb again in the last couple of years and he has moved to the USA west coast (I'm on the Cadadian west coast). He told me in Jan this year that he wanted to see me to catch up sometime in 2016. Well, he want me to meet him and spend a weekend with him.

Btw I'm single and I think he is.

Is this weekend alone together thing weird?

Why would he want to see me after all these years?

Why don't you ask him?

What do you want out of this?

Don't you think that a weekend hook up may be a waste of time? You both live in different countries, even if you are now on the same continent.

I think the reason he wants this is because he felt a deep connection with you. How do you feel about spending a weekend with him? chi

If you want to go, go. However this is not for reconciliation, just reunion sex and after that he will return to his world.

catch up sometime in 2016. Well, he want me to meet him and spend a weekend with him.