My girlfriend tried to break up with me but took it back at the last minute?

So me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 months. We are both adults and we had just finished our first semester of college (freshman's). After I got home from my finals, I received a phone call from her and she told me that we should stop dating. I was very shocked because nothing negative has happened between us so far. I asked her if there was anything bothering her and then she started to cry and she took back what she said about us breaking up. After that, my girlfriend told me that she has been having some friendship issues with one of her best friends and its been making her sad. Should I be a little worried about our relationship? I don't want to leave her but I also don't want this to happen again. Or maybe im just taking this too seriously and I should just forget about this and move on.

I think that sounds fishy. I would dump her and move on.

I'd bet the "friendship issues with one of her best friends" is a guy friend.

That makes so sense. BFF problems. I should break up with my bf.

maybe the issue is about you and her Best friend?

It's a guy friend. Regardless, no one has time to deal with their partner emotionally manipulating them with mock breakups just because they're having a rough day. This is something to discuss for sure.

So me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 months. We are both adults and we had just finished our first semester of college (freshman's). After I got home from my finals, I received a phone call from her and she told me that we should stop dating. I was very shocked because nothing negative has happened between us so far. I asked her if there was anything bothering her and then she started to cry and she took back what she said about us breaking up. After that, my girlfriend told me that she has been having some friendship issues with one of her best friends and its been making her sad. Should I be a little worried about our relationship? I don't want to leave her but I also don't want this to happen again. Or maybe im just taking this too seriously and I should just forget about this and move on.

I'd be concerned if I were you, dumping you cold AND on the phone.....taking it back makes things even more bizarre.

You need to meet up and have a 1on1 conversation, if he friends issues are bothering her so much that she felt the need to break up .. yeah something isnt right here.

If I were you right now I'd want to get the full information and not be fed a bs story because soon enough she might do it again. Her attitude is pretty immature.

Meet up & talk it out.

"Friendship issues"? that would not precipitate a break-up unless this friend is more than a friend or influencing her to break up with you. Can you ask her specifically about this friend and what these issues are?

I'd bet the "friendship issues with one of her best friends" is a guy friend.

No, She told me it was a girl best friend. At least thats what she said

"Friendship issues"? that would not precipitate a break-up unless this friend is more than a friend or influencing her to break up with you. Can you ask her specifically about this friend and what these issues are?

I did talk to her about it ( her best friend is a girl from what she told me) and she that they were lacking communication and they were not hanging out as much as they were use to be. What really bothers me is that why would she consider breaking up with me over just that?

That makes so sense. BFF problems. I should break up with my bf.

 

 

maybe the issue is about you and her Best friend?

No, Me and her best friend have no problems at all. In fact, we don't even talk. My guess is that she is not telling me the full story.

Because it's not that. That may explain her being upset otherwise but it bears no relationship to the break up.

What really bothers me is that why would she consider breaking up with me over just that?

Because it's not that. That may explain her being upset otherwise but it bears no relationship to the break up.

Yeah. Its very strange.

My guess is that she is not telling me the full story.

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I have to agree with you there. Either way, I would prepare myself for the next shoe to drop, or you can always simply just quit while you're ahead.

My guess...is that it really a guy and she's giving you a story about it being a girl so you don't get mad.

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I have to agree with you there. Either way, I would prepare myself for the next shoe to drop, or you can always simply just quit while you're ahead.

Yeah, I don't expect this to end very well. It's a shame because she was a really good girl and then all of a sudden this happens. I guess that's just life.